What do I say if I girl rlly likes me but I don't know if I like her back?

[Anonymous]

[Rosexøxø]

It’s really important as to why you don’t know.

Is it because she’s not THAT attractive but you also wish to get to know her personality?

Something between personality and looks?

Do you know her well? Vibe together?

The fact that you don’t know, seems like you have NO interest in her. Hanging out is probably not even a reality/ nor fun if it’s a “thing.”

You probably don’t find her attractive because you have to question it..

You may not even know her well; nothing about her you seem to appreciate as a person.

You don’t even seem like you look forward to hanging/interacting with this girl 🤣

You seem “confused”/ unsure, so that right there is already telling me a no.

That’s totally okay, as well? I just hope you don’t try to make something out of it, out of boredom or “see just what happens” while she may have strong feelings for you. Don’t lead her on. Take her seriously as a person, at the least. Be clear about your emotions. Tell her you don’t know if you want to “see” where things go 🤔 otherwise just let it be and break things to her, nicely. 👐

Best to you! (Hope you both find someone fun and compatible).

[stargazeraug1989]

You're really attractive

[Rosexøxø]

@stargazeraug1989 I truly thank you :] I swear I can never tell lmao.

My hair looks different every day. My look always changin’ on me 🤣

It’s crazy!

So ty 🤝☺️💯

[PrettyPriya]

You be truthful with her about it. There is no need to be rude though. You can be tactful about your feelings. Just tell her that while you are flattered she has these feelings for you, you are just not interested in dating right now.

Nothing there is a lie in your situation unless there are details missing. This way, if you are truly unsure, you leave the door open for the future rather than flat out rejecting her. Just be aware that she may move on anyhow.

Another thing to consider is to try and get to know her better. I don’t know your relationship with her (time wise) but perhaps you just don’t know her well enough to know one way or the other. No harm in getting to know someone better to really make a good decision.

Whatever you decide, be true to yourself. There is no sense in forcing a relationship when you are on the fence about it. Best of luck to you.

[Summeroflove]

This depends. If toure unsure. Just try a date. A date is a date that’s all. You can see if feelings grow or if it’s not meant to be.

I would see where it goes.

[AviatorTom]

Get to know her, go on a few dates... it will help you decide if you like her or not.

[OlderAndWiser]

YOU don't know if YOU like her. Why don't you know?

[Avicenna]

Don't leave her hanging- decide if you want to date her and tell her. I'd give it a shot.

[slatyb]

Do you mean "How do I respond when a woman asks me out and I'm not sure I'm attracted?"

I have a simple test -- could I imagine kissing her? If i could, then I would say yes and see if there's any mutual interest.

[Rosexøxø]

Pro tips 🙌

[slatyb]

@Rosexøxø On more than one occasion I have found that women I initially didn't find attractive became much more attractive as I got to know them.

[Rosexøxø]

Awe that’s so pure 🤧 also a bit sad that it didn’t click on the first ‘meet n’ greet’ 😄😭

[slatyb]

@Rosexøxø I've been married for some years now, so they aren't potential partners. There is one woman I could have met for a date long ago and I sorely regret missing that opportunity.

[Rosexøxø]

At the time did you believe you liked her? Or were you unsure back then? 🤔

[slatyb]

@Rosexøxø My wife? Immediately. She's quite attractive, but didn't know it until she met me.

[Rosexøxø]

Ohhh so you both were in communications before the moment you two had met? 😲

[slatyb]

@Rosexøxø We met online.

[Anonymous]

Give some break to this connection or relationship for a few days. If you miss her at that time, it means you've started liking her. And if you don't miss her then understand that you don't have feelings for her then it will be easy for you to tell her.

[JustMeL120]

tell her yes or no. Life is to short to waist a peoples time.

[Rosexøxø]

Agreed 🙌💯🤝

[Exterminatore]

Accept her number, then don’t answer her calls. Accept a date, then call 1 hour before date time and tell her you can’t make it because you have to wash your hair. This is what girls do. Follow their standards. Equality.

[jujus]

Taker her on a date see how you feel after that if you decide not to move forward tell her nicely as possible

[Rosexøxø]

Seems logical and fair 💯

[Cheerfull009]

Only you can answer such questions, others do know your minf

[Rosexøxø]

True

[shades777]

Then, tell her your dating someone else at the moment

[itsalyssaagain]

Don’t say anything if you’re unsure

[Nikki1989]

What do you know?

[Sparkie460]

Be polite but truthful.

[Rosexøxø]

🎯 spot on

[In_Trance]

Show your real age first

[Anonymous]

I need time