How to stop falling prey to psychopath?

[JustMeL120]

I am fed up with psychopaths love bombing me and me falling in love with them. Its so anoying also as i find sosiopathic personality attractive. I keep falling in love with them and feel sorry for their hard childhood and want to cover them with love and they dont love me back and want to see me hartbroken for their own sadistic pleasure.

[Anonymous]

You seem very aware of both the things they do to manipulate people and how you fall for it and are attracted to them. So because you already know all that, you just got to stop engaging with those types of men. When you see the signs you end it immediately. You should also try to date men you don’t normally fall for. You can’t keep dating psychopaths no matter how much you’re attracted to them, but you already know that.

[JustMeL120]

I know that you are right i need to try to date normal guys non psychopatic. Its important to try new things. The problem is i think i have many psychopathic traits and i also have a lot of empathy so i can relate to them.

[worldscolide]

It's simple.. Make a choice.. You have control over your own actions... Make a choice to cut him from your life.

[DizzyAster2]

Get help.

It can be very hard to overcome your attractions, without understanding where it comes from.

[JustMeL120]

It comes from i am a verry loving and empathic person. And sosiopath had such a shit choldhood that my love and empathy for them explodes inside my heart. I know its hard for the majority to get this because most people are a dick.

[DizzyAster2]

Two words: mental health

[JustMeL120]

1 word: troll

[ZombieInLove]

Using your brain is your solurion. Dont hesitate, just think and observe.

[JustMeL120]

Thank you but i can't stop my heart. I look at them and how mest up they are and then they tell me stories about being abused as children and i just want to kiss them and hug them and make there life with me compensate for their shit childhood by making them super happy. then i fall i love with them.

[ZombieInLove]

Have you ever thought that they're doing these to abuse you? It is a trick. Maybe, the things they told are wrong.

[JustMeL120]

I think they do but the stories they are tell are true. i can't help but think somewhere deep inside them there is a kind person who just needs love. But they often think they can do much better than me datewise so the treat me like shit.

[ZombieInLove]

Does it mean that they're not kind inside? They just wanna get laid. They use their problems. You should find someone who has already solved his problems. Otherwise you cannot get out that circle

[JustMeL120]

I know you are right sosiopaths are still smart enough to make choices and they could easily choose to become good. Even if someone has no empathy of tgey have knowledge that someonething can hurt someone or is wrong they should choose not to do it. Its like blind people they dont know what things look like doesn't stop them from living fairly normal lives.

[Anonymous]

uhh then don't?