The guy I like is playing games. Do I move on?

[Anonymous]

Spoke for 2 weeks. Then he asked me to go over and have sex with him. I declined because i wasn't comfortable yet. I asked him to hang out the week after and he ghosted me. I didn't double text. Moved on. Then he messaged me 4 weeks later asking to hang out. I politely declined. Then 3 months later I see him in spots I hang out and sense him trying to bump into me. I reached out and asked if he was doing okay. Then we hung out. He told me he wasn't after anything serious so I backed off.

I explained to him, I didn't appreciate the ignoring and he now keeps trying but I'm just over it, I like him but it's made me uncomfortable. I sensed he wants another go but I'm so confused.

What do I do?

[bobalife]

He’s a fuckboi 😪 unless you’re also for hook ups, just run and move on to better guys who actually wants the same thing as you.

[JustMeL120]

I wouldn't date a guy who ghost women show a real imaturity and entitlement. I would find someone more mature.

[In_Trance]

that's up to you. I think you're too old for this crap

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Leave him be. He's still trying to hit it and quit it.

[Asker]

So he just wants to have sex with me? Are you serious?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Dead serious.

[Asker]

Why bother? Explain a bit more. It seems so odd

[ImalwaysrightOK]

He's probably a fuckboy. It's his game. He keeps you interested but then backs off, next he wants to hookup, you say no so he ghosts but comes back hoping you change your mind.

[Countywoman83]

Walk away and move on. This guy is only trying to keep you at an arms reach so he can sleep with you. He doesn't have feelings for you, he just wants sex. He's a man child, move on girl!

[Asker]

So he is playing games with me. Why do men do this?

[Countywoman83]

I had this same thing happen to me. They want to keep you as an option. Also, he hasn't slept with you yet and still views you as a challenge.