Girl has a boyfriend but asks me if I have a girlfriend and touched me in a weird place. Why?

[Anonymous]

she asked me if i have a girlfriend, i said no. The next day while we standing and talking she put her hand on my abdomen and kept it here.

why did she do this if she has a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know for sure why this girl acted this way without more context, but her behavior could be seen as potentially inappropriate and disrespectful to her boyfriend. It's possible that she may be interested in pursuing something with you, despite being in a relationship, or she may simply be seeking attention or validation from others.

Regardless of her intentions, it's important to maintain clear boundaries and respect her existing relationship. If you're interested in pursuing something with her, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation about her intentions and feelings, as well as your own. However, it's important to approach the situation with caution and to be prepared for the potential consequences of pursuing someone who is already in a committed relationship.

If you're uncomfortable with her behavior or feel like she is crossing a line, it's okay to speak up and let her know that you're not comfortable with it. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to make choices that align with your values and beliefs.

[slatyb]

She wants you. Are you sure she has a boyfriend? Are they living together?

It's quite possible that she's not happy in her relationship but is afraid to end it and be alone. If you give her some attention, she may jump. Maybe tell her to listen to Paul Simon's "Fifty Ways to Leave Your Lover"

[Asker]

Yes I’m sure she has a boyfriend. I have asked a friend of hers (guy).

[slatyb]

That doesn't mean she's happy with it.

[Asker]

But do i really want to be with her if she does that behind her bf’s back?

[slatyb]

That's a good question. Maybe just ask her directly? "Are you flirting with me? I could be interested, but I thought you were seeing someone."

[Asker]

tbh i dont have the guts to ask her that

[slatyb]

You don't ask, you don't get. She touched you. She WANTS YOU TO ASK.

[Sour-rose]

FK that guy; you look better. And she's a ho

[Asker]

Wdym “fk that guy”? And how can you say i look better if i dont have any pic of me?

[Sour-rose]

mon dieu, mon ami. You asked a question, and that's your answer. to hell with her boyfriend, she wants youuuuuu.
Comprende?

[Asker]

The thing is would you really want to be with someone that does stuff like that behind someone else’s back? No right?

Is there a chance that she is just ebing friendly? I kinda doubt that. Would you personally do that to a guy if you had a boyfriend?

[Sour-rose]

I wouldn't call that friendly. In any sense. And if I did have such a boyfriend, i probably wouldn't... if I was happy.

[Asker]

Okay so in your opinion it’s a sign of something more than friendly.

[Sour-rose]

In my own... yeah. :)

[Anonymous]

She’s a player

[Asker]

So that means she doesn't care about her boyfriend?

[mb120101]

she's bad news