How do you get rid of thoughts of being with someone?

[Anonymous]

Every now and then I think about being with someone but I don’t want that. Especially, if I’m not in a good place mentally. Any suggestions would be great.

[MementoMori777]

The truth here is that deep down you want someone, weither you deny it or not because if you didn't, logically you wouldn't have the debate In your head, you think you can live all alone but deep down you don't want too and that's completely normal because humans weren't made to be alone and the craving of the company of someone else will always be there, it's a natural human instinct to want someone, I know now you want to get rid of the thoughts but the truth is that it's impossible, because our minds were wired for companionship.

[Asker]

Thing is it doesn’t for normal to me. It never has.

[MementoMori777]

But it is, you have created this delusion that you were meant to be alone, that's all bullpoopoo cause you weren't and you are letting this thought cloud your mind to the reality, you can get someone, I know it for a fact, cause there's someone for everyone but deep down I know you want someone but you are your worst enemy in this situation because you are the one stopping yourself from getting it because you pull back from society just listening to that false thought you have in your mind, yet throw aside the natural thought that will bring balance to your life, the truth is that enough time alone will bring most if not all the negative emotions possible.

[Asker]

I’m not mentally ready to be in a relationship, and never will be. I’m not in the right state of mind to be in a relationship with anyone.

[MementoMori777]

I know you aren't and that's simply cause you are letting your thoughts cloud your mind, your mental state is fine, trust me, you just have to believe it as well, break that tie you got, one of your main problems is that you have to learn to take compliments and not just consume the negative ones, tell me Sasha what do you lack that other women don't? What makes you incompatible in love because believe it or not even serial killers have admirers, sorry but not sorry Sasha but I'm highly convinced the only thing stopping you from the compability of finding and accepting love is yourself.

[Red-Blaze]

I mean you may disagree with my answer, but maybe you do want someone but put your self in a place of not beliving you find someone or deserve it
Being in a bad mental state is something some will be willing to deal with
Why do you not want someone? did you really look deep into your self to understand your self on why?

I read some outher answers one did stick out to me and I like to say, a good therpist dose not tell you what to do or not to do
There job is to help you face and understand your self, if you never try it, maybe you should it can be good, and in a bad mental statecas you said you are it can be a life saver, if you can try

[dudeinohio]

I think, subconsciously you do want to be with someone and these feelings are starting to surface. Perhaps a therapist will help.

[Asker]

I don’t want anybody though. And a therapist won’t tell me how to get rid of my feelings.

[dudeinohio]

You never know until you try

[Anonymous]

Do masturbate three times in a day..
Morning. Afternoon & night. Your problem will be solved.

[Mansearching]

Get a therapist. Talk things out.

[Asker]

If I talk to a therapist, they’re just going to say the same thing like everyone else: “Oh, you’ll find the right one and they’ll be supportive.”

[Mansearching]

They can go deeper than we can. Ev1 on here can give similar opinions, yes. But we're not educated enough like them.

[In_Trance]

The answer won't change. Get some Vitamin D

[Asker]

Don’t want to

[In_Trance]

There's a difference between want and need, which you're not recognizing

[Asker]

Still standing by what I said

[In_Trance]

But you keep posting the same questions lol.
I don't know why you're standing by that

[Asker]

Because I need REAL answers. Not “get some dick. That’ll help.” That’s such a childish answer.

[Asker]

Then again I’m not surprised that’s coming from a guy so 🤷‍♀️

[In_Trance]

Your last 2 responses proove my point

[Asker]

Why are you so obsessed about dick?

[In_Trance]

I'm not; you keep asking