I’m a single guy who helps out with my church and community and I’m … ok looking yet … I keep getting women who are too old or not my type and it’s getting a bit hurtful that they keep pressuring me to be with them… I do think we are all beautiful inside because God made us yet… there has to be mutual attraction right. Is there a reason? Am I doing something wrong? Should I just give up? Should I just go on a date to prove to them I’m not the one?
Girls, Single Guy who attracts not my type girls?
What Girls Said
What attracts me to someone will not be the exact same things that makes the next girl attracted to a guy. Sure, there will be many things that I look for that others do as well. In general, I look for a guy with a good personality, character, intellect, sense of humour, values, goals and so on.
While those are general things, they have to mesh well with my personality, character, etc. That is what is going to vary between me and others. I like someone that can take my silliness. Some guys might appreciate that and others might prefer a girl that is more serious. This is just one example.
As far as should you go on a date with someone to prove they are not your type? No, you shouldn’t. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone. If you are not feeling a connection or possible one, don’t force something that isn’t there.
You will be going into the date already with your mind made up. That is just wasting your time and her’s. That makes no sense to do that.
Finding someone who is your type can be a challenge for anyone. Keep trying.
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