Well what're you actually insecure about? Just because you're not a type doesn't mean you can't be loved. My perfect girl is redhead with green eyes, and relatively fit. My general type is again relatively fit but I'd like her to be a gamer like me. I found a woman who was Mexican with brown messy hair and eyes, over 250, and gets bored easy with games and always wants to go out.
Sometimes love isn't predicated on fitting a type, but finding enough in common to make something happen. Let yourself love him and he'll let himself love you
Types can change.. just because that was his type doesn't mean you wont' become his new type. You can't really have a type unless you have been with other types. You might think that is your type but deep down you don't know until you have been with a variety of people. You stay sexy and confident.. don't worry about nonsense like types.
A guy will do that until the girls he does want come by, he's only with the girl for either sex or not to be alone. Guys will go after the average girl cause their too scared to go after women they really want, so the settle for what they can get. If he told you that, then I would ask him why he's even speaking to you. I would stop talking to this guy cause he's wasting your time. Tell him to stop getting with girls he doesn't even like just cause he's to much of a punk to go after what he wants.
Give it 2-3 months and then come back if he's still interested. Usually it's a different trait that interested him be it physical or personality but when he's done with the trial/novelty phase, that's when you know he values you more than something shiny.
He’s acknowledging expanding his horizons and what he is interested in and that something about you captivated him. That said, he should have thought before he spoke. He’s kind of an idiot for saying what he did.
actions speak louder than words. maybe he really likes you for well YOU
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Guys will say they have a type and that's bullshit. Most guys don't care as long as they like you. If he is dating you than he likes you. That comment was to say the girls he dated in the past all seemed to look one way and you look another.
To me it sounds like he chose the sexier girl over his normal "type". Don't feel insecure (I know saying that doesn't really help haha) he wants to be with you.
I don’t know how other guys feel, but I suppose I have a type, but I don’t take it too seriously, in fact, I think if a girl is “my type” I would probably look for reasons to question my attraction than a girl who didn’t fit that criteria and be more open-minded
Means you are a trial for him, also he probably meant he is happy with you/meant it as a compliment
Please for the love of god tell me your name isn't Lauren?
If he's comfortable enough to tell you that he enjoys your personality as a friend. He also probably doesn't want to screw up that friendship. ( I've told one of my close friends this exact thing before.) Just be kinda and act how you normally do around him.
My ex said that to me and after hearing about all his ex’s I looked at myself and I’m like... then why me?
Be careful if he told you that to the face but wants to date... I see it as an indication that he's asking for your permission to use you. If you are not his type then y date with you?
to learn confidence around women and their mindset. and to grow his self esteem to go for higher later. thats how they think.
Back in the day I used to be pretty Punk/Goth. I dated a girly girly who wasn't alternative in the slightest. Everyone was confused when we walked down the street hand in hand.
We were together because we just hit off. Types are overrated.
If it is only about sex, the type doesn´t really matter.
I dated an Amazon once when my preference is generally on the petite side because we had chemistry and the sex was fucking amazing.
This means that he's having a hard time finding his type.
And don't feel insecure about what one guy thinks. You're not his type, yet he's dating you. That means you have a special personality.
Who cares about his type. I would like to believe that people don't pick each other based on a breast size... well maybe the shallow ones do
Perhaps he was just practising. I wouldn't take it personally; I know that's easier said than done. At least now you know it's time to move on
Can't have pizza everyday... might as well have some variety! No reason to be insecure. He's trying something new
If you've already had sex or tell you have nothing to worry about. Or that's how it was for me in that situation.
He is maybe testing his taste... I once ask a girl out that did not look like my normal type of girls... because I felt in love with her personality and her eyes... she is still my girlfriend today!
You can still click despite not initially being someone’s type. They develop a taste for you like a food you love but is a very different type of food than everything else you eat.
How well do you know him to know his type?
Or maybe he's trying something different?
If he likes you and finds you attractive, his type is irrelevant. Type is a general preference. People are unique.
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