Am I a coward taking my anger out on women who actually have feelings for me when a different woman leads me on, dumps me or ghosts me etc?

[Anonymous]

Be honest.

[ohsheeT]

I don't think that it makes you a coward I think it makes you more self-centered and thinking it's all about you first of all if somebody dumps you you need to thank them because they're not leading you on because they're not taking from you they're telling you they are the wrong person for you and you need to accept that and thank them for telling you however they have to tell you you need to thank them and for the women that are in your life that you're yelling and screaming and treating them like crap what the hell you doing they're being there for you when you can't be there for yourself even I don't think it makes you a coward I think it makes you a little bit not too smart first of all for taking your anger out on anybody first of all you shouldn't have any anger it's not that big of a deal you have to remember when you do stuff like that all you're doing is showing those other women who you truly are so why don't you become somebody that you want to become and treat people with respect because one day there might be a girl there a friend of one of the women that you're taking your anger out of and she's going to look at you and say oh hell no I know where that girl left this guy has nothing but problems instead of being mature about it understanding the whole situation and understanding that in the long run this was the best thing anyway instead of snapping that's not right you do it how you want to do it but it just proves to everybody who you truly are when you can't handle it and you take it out of somebody else that doesn't deserve any of it this is your problem nobody else's you deal with it with in and understand why it happened and then understand it's for the best probably

[richardcory]

Blaming a group of people the actions of some of its members is at the root of much evil in the world.

You are behaving badly. Stop it.

[Anemone978]

Yes.. its just plain stupid... How do you ever expect to find love if you shit on people who love you? Do you ever think the women who ghost you do it because they know you are an asshole?
Work on yourself bro.. you are the problem..

[Asker]

No they didn't, and tbh as long as my physical needs are being met I'm happy

[Anemone978]

Strange.. well if you are happy why even ask the question? Just keep doing you..

[Asker]

Because I don't like what I'm doing as well because I know it's bad and I feel guilty... but then the other side of me thinks nah fuck that would they feel guilty in my position

[Anemone978]

Okay well that's a good sign.. but what makes you want to hurt them?
Like is it once you get dumped you deliberately go find a girl to hurt? or how do you be doing things?

[Asker]

To regain my pride and dignity and for the second question it's more opportunistically but if none approached me I would find a 2/10

[Anemone978]

Wow.. really?
But how do regain dignity if you are giving a 2/10 the time of day?
what is it you do just pump and dump?

[Asker]

Yes but start an emotional bond and talk of moving in, getting married and having children

[Anemone978]

That is just mean.. but I guess that's why they shouldn't be easy lays..

[Asker]

What women have done to me is mean! 😂

[Anemone978]

You deserved it tho 🤣🤣

[Asker]

Why?

[Anemone978]

Karma.. what you put out, you get back..
I bet the bitches who ghost you got ghosted by someone they liked too.. its just a cycle bro..
What comes around goes back around lol

[EmmaMary]

What a fucking pathetic piece of lowlife shite!

[Asker]

I'm a product of my environment and experiences

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Avicenna]

Yes, displaced anger is wrong

[MementoMori777]

Yea and a douche because I'm sure you complain about how the other women treat you and then you go and do it to others, if you complain it makes you a hypocrite as well

[Asker]

To me it feels like revenge and I justify it by claiming it's retaliation

[MementoMori777]

But you are relatiating against the wrong women, of anything at the very least lash out to the one that deserve it, which I don't recommend but it beats doing it to the ones that actually give you the time of day cause I know deep down you know they don't deserve UT

[MementoMori777]

It**

[MementoMori777]

Retaliating*

[Asker]

If i were to seek revenge against the women who hurt me or too display signs of hurt, anger or upset I feel I'd look weak

[MementoMori777]

You would, but you seem even weaker and more pathetic and toxic taking it out on the women that only want to be with you, long story short you aren't making it better for yourself if you lash out at the women that are giving you the time of day, because you basically are making these toxic women by treating them this way, they like you and they are interested in you and you lash out on them hurting their feelings then they will think that men are shit and then they will start ghosting people and lead others on just because they don't believe love is worth it because when they tried they were attacked aggressively or had negative outcomes, the world is already broken and you aren't making it any better.

[Asker]

Who was the first to start this cycle? Men or women?

[MementoMori777]

No one will ever know but keeping it going won't solve anything

[Asker]

You're right tbh

[DryGermanGuy]

You posted this bullshit behavior already. Grow the fuck up.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

"It doesn't make you a coward, it just makes you a tremendous shit"

- Gabriel from The Walking Dead (kind of)

[SirJohn42]

Well you have a right to hurt. But making her hurt because of another hurting you is not good.

Taking your anger out on her is just immature. Apologize to her. Even if she never speaks to you at least you apologized.

[TheSpaceGnome]

A coward is afraid of something trivial.

You're just being an idiot and an asshole.

[strateguy632]

coward? more like foolish and mean and self-harming.

[Randalama]

Yeah but I wouldn't worry about it. Just make bank. For the next forty years. Don't worry about the rest of it. None of it serves you. Just make bank!

[jshm2]

You are a coward anyway, and it's why women dump and ghost you.

[Anonymous]

No more than women. And women do it constantly. No you shouldn't do it. But hey, it's gonna happen here and there.

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, there is no sense in that.

[Asker]

Revenge, getting even, regaining my pride

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe not a coward, but kind of a jerk.

[Grubhub]

Yes I’ve done that. I was 26-27