I receieve unwarranted hatred specifically women that I do even try to talk to. It's not rejection its more like bullying. Is it just me?

[Keo777]

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I am a male and I consistently receive unwarranted hatred from women. Not women I've tried to pursue just everyday women. It is confusing and it's making believe that women, mainly in American, are just horrible humans. I repeat, I am not trying pursuer these women. This is more like bullying. Am I alone?

[FateofOphelia]

Why do they do it? There has to be a reason.

[Keo777]

It's very hard to pin point. However, it is the normal things people would bully others for but it seems as if for women in particular its a mission to try to destroy me for simply existing.

I feel like they don't think I should be alive.. I know that's dark but I'm kinda coming to that conclusion.

I'm unattractive, yes. I get hate from Men as well but it's nowhere near the level of women.

Also to add - when other see it. They make it seem like I “liked them” almost to justify the hate. It's very odd. I'm confused.. Are women just plainly evil or am I missing something?

[FateofOphelia]

I don't get it. Why do you get hate

[Keo777]

Here my thoughts: I think they can't really use me so at that point to them I become meaningless which not every human male on earth is here to be a disposable option for you.

If I am unattracted to a woman - that's it. That is as far as it goes. At the very most I will ignore them but to feel like they should exist is beyond crazy and purely evil.

[Keo777]

Also I am totally fine if I am never married or in a meaningful relationship. I'm cool with that. However, kids, disable and people that are minding their own business isn't a threat so I will not engage with violence. But it seems like there is an issue with women “incentivizing” themselves.. That is more of an ethical issue not romance.

I leave people alone. It's no one is trying to hurt me I don't bother them at all. But it's like women are angry that I am a male and they can not use me for something.

THAT NEEDS TO STOP.

If you don't like me then reject me I encourage it. They have full right to. BUT if I'm not bothering you then why are you trying “frame me” for harrasment. Why are you treating me with grave disrespect? It's baffling to me.

[FateofOphelia]

You are doing the right thing

[Keo777]

Thank you. If you are a woman just be kind to men regardless of what they can offer you. That's just a decent thing to do for anyone. Nobody owns anyone the right to be a “bad option” just be fine with that fact that they are not an option and leave folk alone. It's unequivocal that it's better for the opposite sex.

Maybe one day unattractive males and work with attractive women in a truly and harmonious platonic way.

We don't need the thought of ideal of less to appreciate what we have.. Just appreciate what you have.

[FateofOphelia]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Well, rejection is not very pleasant, and bullying is even worse.

[Keo777]

I completely agree. So that is why I ask. I'm not an incel but what if some of them are like that because or women incentivizing themselves? Forcing to exist in this world of comparison.. Essentially making them play a game in which they will loose and this forced participation has consequences that they administer.

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed, you're right, I'm also not an incel, but I never had a relationship, and I'm a virgin, because girls that I like never liked me back.

[Keo777]

That's interesting. Let me ask this: What made you like them? You can be honest because for the most part it's attraction so you can't really be upset when you are playing their game.

You have to deal with decide who you want to be and what games you want to play. Because if you are attracted to them based off looks then you also have to accept that your looks does not attract them.

I do play the attraction game because I know I won't be happy with the outcome. My issue is that I can't find anyone that does not want to play this game. In the game I play its not attraction based. It's primaryily based on integrity that to me has a more statiniable outcome within the context of a relationship.

[Keo777]

Don't*. My keyboard is the worst sorry

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly, they were hot, it was mostly because of attraction.
The thing is... when I'm attracted to a girl, I always try to adapt to her personality, even if they mistreat me.

Yes, I'm aware of that... most girls prefer guys who look like Brad Pitt, or Leonardo DiCaprio.
Or rich guys... some girls are gold diggers.

I get it, well, personality is important too... I like girls who are dominant, assertive, and self-confident.
The main reason is... I'm too shy with girls, so I need a girl who likes to take initiative, girl who is not shy.
But the problem is, I usually get friend-zoned.
All of my loves were unrequited.

[Keo777]

Trying to adapt to mistreatment is insane. It’s ok to provide Grace. However, consistent mistreatment is a reflection of their level of respect they have for others, in particular you, if you condone or accept this behavior it’ll do nothing but continue.

That’s just a life lesson for anything you or I do.

At that point, you’re merely picking from a pool of low integrity. It sounds like, if you want to pursue, a healthy- requited relationship you should probably prioritize character first and foremost, not anything else..

You may not get to what you imagined physically.. but I can suggest that you are unlikely to have this same issue.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I realized that, but what can I do? They probably won't change their mind.

Exactly, I learned that lesson many times.

If I'm not physically attracted to a girl, I can only be friends with her, but I'm not interested in a romantic relationship if there is no attraction.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yep, just you. You probably suck a lot

[Keo777]

What do you mean? My comment said unwarranted which means most of the people or in this women did that without having spoken one word to me.

This is why is ask “what you mean” because “suck” as in I'm not their type and again this is apart of “incentivization” or I “suck” as in that did something wrong to them. Because these are two different things.

If someone “suck” mean they are not my type then I just don't bother them at all; I leave then alone. Which I would be completely ok with them doing but that's the problem..

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s a vibe you give off

[Keo777]

Again. people are allowed do to be who they are but that doesn't mean I should hurt them because of that.

Furthermore, not everyone is this world is create to be a vibe for someone. That's ok. The world is made up of different people.

Chances we you and I wouldn't hang out because that does mean I hate you for that. You can meet other humans you connect with.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nobody brought up getting hurt in this convo

[Keo777]

This is in my original post. It literally says “bullying”. Also, if if you look at other comments they mention it as well.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That doesn’t mean you deserve the right to make others bleed

[Keo777]

Huh? lol. I’m confused. I’m not making others “bleed” and nor do I desire to.

I was want to be completely ignored by women. That mean no good or bad. I honestly do not want them to even see that I exist. I thought I would have that because I am unattractive. Then I realized I do have something to offer.. their endless need and joy for humiliating men they are not attracted to.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Your English isn’t all that great, you confused me too. Also, this post is ancient, I completely forgot about you until you replied. I don’t care anymore. Take the last word and go

[Abbycado]

Lol, sure you do.

[Keo777]

Omg.. Do y'all have a secret plan or mission? This is kinda scary. I will mention that I am an unattractive male so it's not completely out of the blue. However Its more consistently from women not as much men (but it does happen with me too).

It's not a big deal I guess but there is some here. Most humans are deprived so.. That's just life but with men its not the same.. With women its hatred out the gate! Bro.. Wtf is this. It's Satan or something no mercy. I get the feeling its like “if you aren't a man I would want you should die”.

[Anonymous]

Are you 40 or really 14?

[Keo777]

I am 40. Not sure why the question came out like that. Sorry. Bullying actually is a big issue in Corporation America by the way.