Do you find this true or false that if a girl has sex before marriage that she is not a nice girl?

[sage2021]

This question was inspired by another male user on this site that made that statement. Do guys really believe that in 2023?

[Lliam]

I can't understand what having a libido and not being afraid of sex has to do with a girl's character.

The only reason why some women are afraid to engage in sex is because ass holes stigmatize them for it. Look at the comments here that brand them as "hoes".

There are an endless number of words for prostitutes that wound up being applied to normal women. Why are there no such words for men?

Idiots consider women who have had sex to be "used goods" and their vaginas to be dirty or tainted. I can't imagine anything more ignorant.

Not one of my girlfriends was a virgin. And when were were going together we had LOTS of sex. But they were good girls with healthy values and normal hopes and dreams. As far as I know, they all ended up married with families.

For example, my first girlfriend wound up married to one of my best friends. They had two girls. She became the two time mayor Temecula, Ca. She was a loyal wife and a great mom. But her husband was a philanderer and pot head who worked as a handyman. He never grew up. They eventually got divorced because of him. Now she's a happy grandma. I'm still in touch with her on Facebook.

The kind of girls who want boyfriends, fall in love (infatuation), and give themselves fully to the relationships, are the kind of girls who are happy, joyful, love life, and are full of vitality.

I don't think it makes any sense for women to be expected to deny their sexual nature. I see no benefit as long as they avoid STDs and unwanted pregnancy. But that applies to men, as well.

How does a person grow up and gain wisdom and knowledge without gaining life experience?

[Stevefiveo]

False, there are plenty of nice girls that do that.

[Anonymous]

You don’t buy a car without test driving it first do you? For me I have to wait for at least 3-4 months into a relationship. I don’t want to sleep with a guy right away. Nope not going to do it. If I give it to them and it doesn’t work out then it’s whatever, but jumping from person to person without a relationship then yes that screams trouble.

[Jennz6]

I guess that I am am not a nice girl because I’m not married…True I’m a naughty girl

[LazerBean]

Lol that's one one way to look at it

[sage2021]

@Jennz6
I thought we wouldn't be hearing from you because you joined the Navy and said you can't have a cellphone in the Navy? How and what's going on with you?

[Jennz6]

@sage2021 I am at lunch and I borrowed a phone to check my messages lol 🚢

[WhiteBoyChill]

How do you go from being a stripper to being a sailor?

[AviatorTom]

False. "Niceness" has nothing to do with sex.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

False.
I've met women who had sex before marriage (and more) and were among the nicest people I know. At the same time, I've met others that are complete b*tches, personality wise.
Heck, a woman who snapped me out of my depression is literally the most promiscuous one I've ever known, and yet she's one of the kindest and most understanding people I've ever known.

[Noah2023]

I believe that when a Man or Woman have sex without getting married shows how impatient, Untrustworthy and how they are unable to control their desires.

their motto “I want to live life when I still can”

How can I trust or respect a person who has such a mentality where she thinks she doesn’t have the time (short life) to find a suitable husband and she has to fuck everybody to feel happy.

I like people who aren’t in a hurry in life and life doesn’t make them do dumb things.

[Lionman95]

I would say false in terms of character because as others already stated I neither see a connection between sex life and character. In terms of a compatible partner I´d say it depends on how active her sex life is. I say so because I´m a virgin because of mainly personal reasons. I therefore wouldn´t want to date a woman that has had sex multiple times since if it doesn´t work well right away she might sleep with other guys behind my back.

It doesn´t have to be that way but I´ve seen it happen in other relationships before. Because what´s the point of marriage then since sex and anything else is already available without the financial and emotional cost of a relationship?

That´s why people have open relationships or friends with benefits and it could be that those are the future.

[ObscuredBeyond]

False. While jumping the gun on sex doesn't do you many favors; virginity is no guarantee of a kind heart. I've met sluts that, while a little shady with money, had generally good manners. And I've met virgins who were thundercunts and bullies.

The trick is this: those who are sweet before sex, and sweet before marriage, and wait until marriage, tend to usually stay sweet.

Those who jump the gun not out of insatiable libido but out of prideful ambition, tend to lose their sweetness, and lose their souls. They go from sweet to cynical.

Those who were vile before sex, will become vile and psychotic after sex.

[Leapfrog00]

False. A girl who waits until marriage is an inexperienced girl. There are guys out there that make it a mission to have sex with virgins because they're "Cleaner". A girl can be not so nice regardless of what she does.

I'd rather be with an experienced girl because they know what they want. At one time girls were considered slutty if they had sex before marriage because governments are fascist and had a taste for power. If you ever get a chance, go on youtube and watch some of those videos from the 1950s on being the perfect sophisticated woman.

[Horror_lover92]

False, I really don't believe that at all, I don't see anything about a girl having sex before marriage is not a nice girl.

When I met my boyfriend I was a virgin, we have been together for 6 years now, and last summer we finally had sex.

[OfMiceandMen]

False. She can still be a nice girl.

I would pose the same question and sub a guy in for the girl.. is a guy not nice if he has sex before marriage?

I wonder if there are any hypocrites out there that believe a girl's not nice but a guy is under the same condition.

[TooHot2Care]

Yes. And since I had sex before marriage , I’m a bad man.

so , girls who had sex before marriage : Let’s shack up , fuck, get into a gooey pink world when we look into each others eyes and then commit evil international acts of crime that strike fear into the population and makes everyone wonder : “why isn’t anybody stopping them?” , baby.

[LazerBean]

Nice as in personality-wise? She can still be nice even if she's a hoe. There's a lot of people who are hoes just because they weren't taught better or because they're on the dumb side. That doesn't mean they're not nice though. Same for men.

[Berethor]

No matter what year it is, slutty girls are untrustworthy, there is even stats that show that.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Kinda weird a woman with 2 partners is more likely to divorce than someone who’s had 4-5.

[Berethor]

It zig-zagging a little but in general high body count is a bad thing, virgins are best.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Sayinging a woman isn't a nice girl cuz she had sex before marriage is just a way to controls womens sexuality. This type of guy would be comparing himself to the thousand guys you slept with before him and it would make him very insecure.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I'm not sure "nice" is the right word, but I definitely would never consider marrying a promiscuous girl. Let some other guys have them. There seems to be a lot of guys with no standards who just don't care. I do.

[Poppymarie]

Uhh, false…? What does that have to do with niceness? There are sweet girls who have sex and bitches who wait, and vice versa. You just can’t generalize.

[tstarr17]

False. I know a few women that were like that and I have the upmost respect for them. And you don't know everything about their situation. Maybe they can't have kids. Maybe they're extremely pro-choice. Niceness has nothing to do with sex. Everyone has different sex drives. I can understand why people would prefer to wait until marriage, but they're not bad people if they choose to not wait.

[Friendlybro79]

False.

People are trolls here. If every girl having sex before marriage makes her bad what does that make the guy that's the other half of the equation then? Lol.

[EpicSnail]

Have met amazing women who had had sex before marriage. Think this notion is bullshit.

[NamerOfStars]

In my experience, sexually repressed people are pretty damned far from "nice".

[exitseven]

False. If she is in a stable loving relationship it is okay. If she has a string of one night stands then maybe true

[Adam1978]

I wouldn't claim so. If she she takes it as far as sleeping around, then she isn't girlfriend material, which isn't only about being nice.

[Anonymous]

I don't think sexual activity or lack thereof is an accurate measuring stick for if someone is a good person or not. I find that logic silly and just another way an insure man is trying exert control over confident women

[Anonymous]

True for most girls unfortunately. We pretend to be nice and try to be nice but usually aren't. Every girl I've ever met who has screwed a guy has told me mean nasty things about another girl which is why I say this.

[najekim]

False. IMHO, any couple should be used to one another sexually before marriage just to be sure they are compatible in that aspect of living together.

[Spongebobssocks]

False. So women with 1-2 bodycounts are evil?

[Grond21]

I definitely do not believe that. While I do think waiting for marriage is by far the best, i don't sleeping with someone before marriage means you are not a nice person.

[4ngelic]

no one thinks that in 2023 unless they're from pakistan or weirdly insanely religious

[Babygirl_S]

False, I believe in waiting until marriage but I don't judge the ones who have pre-marital sex. Everyone should be free to do whatever they like as long as they don't harm anyone.

[Miristheiss]

My ability to love her and for her to be special to me goes down.

[joe488]

I greatly prefer women with more experience, I don't want to teach her how to have sex.

[Sasha0426]

To be fair, everyone was taught how to have sex.

[LiamJHayden]

False. She can be kind and promiscuous or a royal B and a virgin.

[RealMarek]

I don’t think the one thing has to do with the other.

[Anonymous]

Nice isn't the correct word. You can still be nice and not considered marriage material or worthy of being the mother of a mans children...

[Anonymous]

If she was in a committed relationship before meeting her current guy then no that doesn’t make her a slut…a girl that sleeps around carelessly is bad news

[Sasha0426]

If that’s the case, so is the guy. It goes both ways 🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Isn't it like almost every girl has sex before marriage?

However, a guy can have his standers and there's nothing wrong. He can be deeply religious and himself a virgin, so he wants similar.

[Anonymous]

Being Nice and having sex before marriage dont exactly correlate

[Surely]

Depends on your definition of a “Nice Girl!”

[Likes2drive]

False, how is that even relevant? I’m sure you even laughed at that one

[Nazgol]

Lol 😆 how is niceness correlated or anything got to do with that?

[NathanDavis]

nonsense

[Sixgunsound]

What is the definition of nice?

[sage2021]

I guess nice means she's not a slut if she has sex while married.

[Sixgunsound]

Low to no body count would be ideal. But in today's feminist run society which devalues women and devalues sex in general, that doesn't seem very realistic.

[EmmaMary]

What a complete and utter load of nonsense!

[TrueConfection]

Not necessarily.

[DermalPunch]

It depends on the man.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I don't find that to be true.

[mommymommymommy]

She's def. not biblical that's for sure

[MackBoy]

No, that is not true.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t understand how that works

[JuicyJ93]

No opinion just wanted to 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

In general yes.

[HPGirl16]

I don't believe in sex before marriage

[sheikalana]

Not true.

[Andres77]

False

[Reddy4it]

…false…

[Kelly6]

False

[Jamie05rhs]

Absolutely true.

[In_Trance]

false

[Xtendable]

Nonsense

[Swxaddy]

No not at all