Guys, how do you feel when a girl you’re dating says she doesn’t have sex before marriage?

[Anonymous]

Does it upset you? Do you leave her or do you stay until you marry her?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Like looking at a new car I’m not going to buy it before test driving it & nowadays if you are not having sex in the relationship it probably means you are having sex outside of the relationship. She says she doesn’t have sex before marriage & I would say since you are being honest with me I’ll be honest with you, I don’t plan on getting married.

[JoshMa]

Dont think sex is a leading indicator of a wife, a prostitute could probably give you amazing sex. If its a new car and taken care of I'll favor that more than a car with high mileage

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I don't care much for sex so we probably wouldn't have it after marriage it either.

Just for reproduction and that is.

[Asker]

Good to hear! I’m also asexual like you—I don’t care about sex to be honest.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'm not exactly asexual, but I have a very low drive which dives to zero when I'm stressed.
That said, I recognize that my wife has needs so I perform without issue when she wants.

[anon1903]

That's a first date conversation.

I'm a virgin myself and I don't want a timeframe or anything, but they should be upfront about their core values.

[LazerBean]

The only husband material men are already waiting for marriage so that won't be a problem.

[dudeinohio]

Leave her. You must see if you are sexually compatible.

[Asker]

But what if you were very emotionally compatible with the woman? Would you still leave her if she was religious and couldn’t do sex before marriage?

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely.

[DaddyDiablo]

I stay with her obviously and still be fine regardless of if we aren't fucking and I'm not mad actually lol I'm okay with it honestly like who knows what it might be like when you finally get to get her completely

[Kreneman]

I am engaged to my fiancee and we are waiting for marriage. For me, I enjoy it because she is preparing herself for me right now.

[richardcory]

I would not be compatible with a woman who was willing to wait a long time for sex.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't date her because our values and beliefs aren't compatible.

[Anonymous]

Now? Or totally?😆😆😆

Because a lot of women decide this after they've slept with like 10 guys already. 😆 They call it reclaiming thier virginity. And I hate to tell them but closing a bar doesn't mean you never served drinks.😆

I respect a woman who makes the decision to remain a virgin because that shows she has character and strength. But it's easy to say it, it's another thing to do it. Must who say it don't follow through with it.

[Tstrbrainer]

How I feel depends on how long I've been spending my time with her.
If she's upfront and honest about it, I'll respect her and go my way.

If she string me alone for some time, I'll never trust her and leave anyway

[JoshMa]

I'll view her as a prize and value her more but wouldn't feel completely close to her as i feel i could be in my opinion

[MementoMori777]

she's a keeper and id most likely marry her

[Asker]

So you’d be fine spending like a whole year with her without having sex?

[MementoMori777]

easily, I've spend 22 years not having sex with the same goal, this is the perfect results im waiting for and tbh I've been adjusting to the idea that the woman i marry would most likely have had sex so if this ever happened, id be satisfied lol

[Asker]

I’m so happy to hear that there are guys like you out there! Nowadays I constantly hear people say ohhh guys just want one thing and one thing only…to fuck! They’re taking you on dates and asking you out for the sole purpose of getting in your pants.

[MementoMori777]

then i guess god put me in your way for a reason, a reminded to not give up hope perhaps? but yea the world is pretty corrupt nowadays where they put sexual pleasure over peoples emotions, thats just something i refuse to feed into but dont worry i get told that bullshit all the time as well, i just ignore it cause i know good women exist, dont ler rhe hope fade anon 😊💯🙏

[sheenagwapa]

gosh my faith in men us coming back

[Farukhn]

Bruh If u love her go marry first

[karekaaaa]

Can we make out?

[karekaaaa]

I can save her virginty and just make out with her till marriage

[Asker]

Yea making out is okay, just not anything sexual

[karekaaaa]

Its ok
Both of us make out and share fun

[karekaaaa]

But we must put a time to mary

[Asker]

Yes lol because at some point you will be so tired and horny from waiting so long 😂

[karekaaaa]

Tbh i tried this with my ex

[JoshMa]

Only guy i heard say im ok with just makingout 😂

[karekaaaa]

Yea i know its for you
But for muslims its a big sin to do sex thats all😅