Guys, What do you think when she tells you that she has never been any relationship before?

[Anonymous]

Okay that's my situation, is it sounds weird? Should I lie to him or just be honest when we are dating.

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Thanks for sharing your thoughts, guys! For the record, I don't want to just for hook ups or ons. I wanna meaningful relationship so really picky that find the one, maybe that's why.

[ohsheeT]

In the start of any relationship you want to be 100% honest all the way through always the moment somebody tells the LIE is the moment the relationship starts going downhill you start losing the trust Factor the respect Factor always be honest

There's nothing wrong with you not being in a relationship at all I mean I look at it I totally respect that I like that because it shows me you're strong-willed and you know what you want and that's hard to find nowadays so don't be embarrassed or don't be shy about being who you truly are because who you truly are is what people like about you probably

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you hoping to find a partner for a long term relationship, or are you just wanting casual sex?

[Asker]

Long term relationship!

[OlderAndWiser]

The foundation of a relationship is trust and respect, and that is built upon candid communications. Yes, you should tell him, but the question is when do you tell him? Are you concerned that if you don't tell him, that it will become obvious at some point and that will be embarrassing to you?

[Asker]

I'm concerned what if he ask me like 'when is your latest relationship?' just on second or third dating. I'm afraid it gives him the image that I'm probably naive and manipulable (sorry I don't know that's right word to express my feeling😅).

[OlderAndWiser]

You could say, "I haven't had a long term relationship because I haven't met anyone who I thought was a good match for me. It's not that I have impossible standards; I just want a guy who (is honest, sincere, is looking for more than casual sex, and who is willing to commit to me if we think we are a good fit. And I keep hoping that the next guy is The One.)" Or you can insert whatever your criteria are. That tells him that you haven't had a LTR but it's because you are selective and you are not desperate.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot for your sincere reply!

[Lionman95]

No don´t lie because honesty is better. It´s not weird you have your story and there might me reasons why you´ve single and if the reason is you found no guy that you´ve been interested and attracted enough to want a relationship with than so be it.
It would be weird if you lied and he finds out.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t think anything based on the age category you out yourself in. Simply because I know at that age I was always busy w school, sports, joined the military, etc. Now if you’re ere in your late twenties or older I’d think there’s something wrong there. Just be honest.

[RavVid]

Just be honest.

I'd think either you have been too busy running through guys to have a boyfriend or not liked any guy enough to make one a boyfriend or you're a horror that hasn't been able to get a guy. You might want to clarify that with guys you might be interested.

[Anonymous]

I would think, "she lying, the question is why". What is she hiding?

If she was a guy I would so by all means lie. But as a woman in this situation it's best that she tell the truth. You don't have to. But you will pay for lying about it later... if there is a later.

[boobliker]

no lies not even very small ones. if you like them just go with it only answer questions with what is needed no moer, that way you can add latter if it comes to it!

[DisturbedFanatic]

I mean, most people might be curious. I don't think most would care. Whats the point in lying. Thats a pretense you have to keep up for the duration of the relationship. Don't begin on a lie. If he finds out, he'll wonder what else you have lied about.

[hello123456789]

If she a virgin...
I'LL believe it but Ill have some questions why.

If she not... she a hoe.

[exitseven]

Why even bring it up. If he asks you just tell the truth but it is really nothing to worry about.

[Truthatanycost]

I think she's just been casually hooking up or having ONS...

[ProbablyClueless]

Whenever I find out that a woman hasn't dated anyone, I always wonder why.

[Lokiion]

Nothing really I would be a bit surprised but other then that I wouldn’t think any other way about it

[DextroShade]

It depends on her age: if she's over 25 it's a massive red flag.

[BigDog1989]

Never been in a relationship, or just a virgin? There's a diff.

[slatyb]

I just accept that from a young woman.

[KrakenAttackin]

So you have just hooked up a lot.

[KrakenAttackin]

Hear that, she's really "picky"😏

[jahaims]

Never lie

[In_Trance]

Depends on your age

[muscles_glasses]

I would be ecstatic

[Anonymous]

She’s lying.