How would you react if a 30-year old woman you're dating told you she's never been in a relationship before?

[Anonymous]

Would you be shocked and push her away, or ask more about it and be open to her nonetheless?

[Finchie40]

I would be shocked that she didn’t , but it wouldn’t change anything , if she is amazing to me and treats me well. I honestly would feel lucky if I am the first guy that took her heart , so it would nt bother me , someone’s past is someone’s past we can either accept it or not.

[Berethor]

I guess I would ask her if she a virgin, if yes then I be happy, I don't want a dirty woman.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Nikki1989]

I would find that very difficult to believe.

[Avicenna]

I might not believe her

[Franka9]

Ik zou het niet erg vinden. Er kunnen genoeg redenen zijn waarom ze bijvoorbeeld niet snel een relatie aangaat. Of ze is erg verlegen.

Ik moet zeggen dat ik relaties heb gehad met vrouwen die al meerdere relaties hadden gehad, en toch denk je bij jezelf: ik ben nummer 14.

Nee, dat is dus geen probleem.

[Nirmroth]

Ik a girl like this she's 28 tho. Just never worked out she's a virgin aswell but completly fine personality and lookwise.

So yea I would wonder why and ask but thats about it.

[YevgenyMikhail]

There's no way a woman at that age never had a boyfriend unless she has an Intellectual disability or she's one of those born again virgins.

[chocolatetwopointo]

or she js didn't want a boyfriend until then?💀

[Truthatanycost]

I'd assume she'd been having a whole load of situationships, friends with benefits or other forms of casual sex.

[LiamJHayden]

I would wonder how she defines "relationship." I've encountered people who consider that to be at least one year together. If that is the definition, I've never had a romantic relationship, as my longest was approximately ten months.

[Likes2drive]

Surprised actually, would want to know why and more about her , I’ve met women that hadn’t had sex in years and they were very attractive so that always surprised me too

[DerekC321]

I'd be flattered that she trusted me and she felt comfortable sharing. I'd love to get to know her better.

[Anonymous]

Well odds are she's lying. The question is why. I'd let her speak on it. If somebody is a storyteller they eventually end up hanging themselves

[Nerdvana]

I would be very concerned and directly ask her why

[Anonymous]

Harder to believe a situation like this for a woman than for a man because women have always had the luxury of being on the receiving end of sexual attention

[chocolatetwopointo]

or she js didn't want a boyfriend until then? men r always quick to assume every woman is a whore these days istg

[Opinion Owner]

Most men assume that women always have options because they are the ones that get approached and hit on

[chocolatetwopointo]

do they tho?

[Pohjolan]

Wait if she elaborates further and otherwise change the subject.

[woahhh152]

I would like to know her more. It's not a red flag for me. I'm sure she'll have a reason for it.

[Anonymous]

would be very open to her and be interested why especially since I have been only in 2

[paledreams]

Isn't that me at 30 as a man equivalent :P

[Fireguy17]

that would not happen, 30 is too young for me.

[genericname85]

i'd wonder why.

[ItsaMeMaik]

I think i would be curious about her. 😁

[chocolatetwopointo]

i wouldn't care