Girls, what would you think if a guy never initiates sex after multiple dates?

[Anonymous]

I would like that

I wouldn't care

Something weird is going on

I would be upset or talk to him about that

Other

[bones_20]

I’d just think that he is trying to be respectful or just doesn’t wanna fuck.

[Asker]

Is there a certain point where you'd stop seeing him?

[bones_20]

Well I’m not gonna be like fuck me on the first date or fuck off, so if it’s a case of him just wanting to take his time and not rush things then I have no problem with waiting.
But I guess if it got to the point where I initiate it and he says no every single time or if he tells me that he’s not interested in having sex with me, then I think that’s when I’d be like ok this isn’t gonna work.
I guess it all just kinda depends on the reasons behind it and how long it ends up continuing for.

[Asker]

Thanks for the input. I appreciate it.
I'm saving sex for marriage, but I haven't told this girl about that yet and we've been on three dates, and we've cuddled fully clothed at my place. I'll eventually tell her but didn't wanna prematurely do so as I've done before

[bones_20]

That’s perfectly fine. I would suggest telling her before serious feelings start developing tho. Saving sex for marriage and marriage itself isn’t for every one, so it’s kinda important for the both of you to be on the same page about those things.

[Anonymous]

I'd think he's trying to be a gentlemen and get to know me before jumping straight into being physical

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be with him.