Girls, would you continue to date a guy if you haven’t had sex with him after months of dating & he hasn’t tried to intiate sex?

[Anonymous]

Yes I would continue to date him

Yes I’d continue to date him but I’d bring it up

No I would end it

[notserana]

Sure, I’d definitely bring it up though. Not to pressure him but I’d be curious. If he doesn’t feel ready for it, I wouldn’t mind and probably wouldn’t mention it again.

[proNutro]

Yes because I don’t enjoy forcing people to do something they aren’t comfortable or ready to do. Also, if I truly cared fo him then yeah it wouldn’t be an issue at all.

[SwedishTwizz]

It's not like it's the man's responsibility to initiate that so if I wanted it, I could ask for it too. In case you denied it to me.. then maybe there would be more doubts and questions

[charltonhestonsgma]

id certainly want to know why and depending on the reason, i may or may not end things

[Asker]

What if he’s anxious and worried about performance? As he suffers from performance anxiety.

[charltonhestonsgma]

great, thats the best reason. love that. means he cares. the best thing for the guy to do would be to be really upfront, honest, and vulnerable about these worries. if you want to please your woman and if you listen to her when she tells you what she wants and how she wants it, you'll be fine. even if your dick game is weak, eating pussy is easy and always a crowd pleaser

[Asker]

So it doesn’t matter if he gets so anxious he can’t get it up enough to have sex?

[charltonhestonsgma]

i'll be honest with you, thats going to be disconcerting unless you explain transparently and candidly that you're nervous and that's why you can't get it up. if you don't say anything or act too weird or secretive or dismissive about it, she's going to think she just doesn't do it for you. but if you're open about it, it should be fine.