I’ve always lusted after them, but over the last few years, I’ve come to dislike them quite a bit. I do the online dating thing, meeting someone about once a month. But the women I meet are angry, boring, self-centered, and the majority are completely out of shape. I can’t remember the last time I found myself intellectually stimulated by a woman, and I’m 44 years old.
What’s particularly odd is that several of these women seem to like me for no good reason whatsoever. They like sleeping with me, but have no interest in anything about me. And they complain all the time about everything.
So I end up breaking it off and they flip out over nothing. I point out that they don’t actually know what I do for work, what my belief systems are, or anything like that, so what the hell are they doing with me?
But I really want to like women again. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
What’s particularly odd is that several of these women seem to like me for no good reason whatsoever. They like sleeping with me, but have no interest in anything about me. And they complain all the time about everything.
So I end up breaking it off and they flip out over nothing. I point out that they don’t actually know what I do for work, what my belief systems are, or anything like that, so what the hell are they doing with me?
But I really want to like women again. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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The best women get snapped up in their 20's and remain with the good men they selected. Once females reach 30 they have been over fucked, imprinted by multiple Chad's, and have lost a genuine ability to pair bond. So what do they do? These "left over women" find a random simp to marry because they want kids, but they resent the simp as he is not the Chad she really wants. There is nothing Mr. Simp can do the make her happy, and the more he tries the angrier she gets. Eventually she divorces him, takes the kids, house, half of his retirement, alimony, and child support; and begins a new search for a new Chad. What she doesn't realize is Chad only wants to pump -dump her and will never commit (he doesn't have to). Eventually, she goes on Tik Thot and makes videos about "where have all the real men gone".
Predictable as fuck.
You need to know that most women on online dating sites are the bottom of the barrel first of all. I can tell you how I do it. First I accept that women just look at the world differently. You have to learn how to forgive them for that. They simply don't know any better. But after that you have to set clear boundaries on what you're willing to accept from them. My problem is most women and thier shenanigans. I don't tolerate that s***. I have to be able to respect her to have a relationship with her.
You get into hookups and are surprised they aren't madly in love with you based off who you are (which you didn't even tell them in the first place)? You seem to be lost. And liking women isn't something anyone here can help you with. Maybe that can be up to a therapist.
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