How do I get my confidence back if I did something with a girl that was feminine. I still like girls but I can’t seem to attract anyone?

[Uziahh]

[SueShe]

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have friends must be proactive and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety if those are part of your problem.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

If you are dissatisfied with the way you look, then simple steps may have a positive impact on you. Try first to change your hairstyle and clothing. They may be one of the reasons why you feel insecure. Learn to smile because people are also judged on how they appear to others. If you frown all the time and never smile, you will be tagged as a person that is difficult to befriend or be with. Good luck.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You got pegged, didn't you? Doesn't make you feminine though lol

Your problem isn't that you did something "feminine" it's just that you feel like you made yourself submissive and you have conflicting thoughts about it. Are you worried you enjoyed it and may want to do it again in the future or did you hate it and never want to think about it again? Once you can determine that, then I think you can start learning how to move on.

[HungTexan]

Maybe quit acting feminine. They may assume you’re gay.

[HelpfulWoman]

depends on what you're classing as "feminine"

[In_Trance]

Therapy