Is me wanting to talk less to her mean I’m giving up?

[Anonymous]

I love her and she can’t see us being serious together right now so I want to talk less because I don’t feel good enough and she talks to other guys which idc but it hurts so does me wanting to talk every once in awhile mean I gave up?

[Cj_Shway]

Hey my guy, feelings are complicated, and we often don't understand them, or why we have them. In this particular case, it's probably not love, and some other feeling disguising it as such. meaning it's probably best you move on. You feel strongly about her now, but I assure it'll pass, and a lot quicker than you may think. especially at our age man. it's time to cut her off.

[Asker]

Yeah I agree she says she loves me but it’s just because of the distance why she can’t but at the end of the day your right appreciate it brotha !

[Anonymous]

If you were the person I wanted... I love you too Bae

Even if you arnt you deserve love and a peaceful night.

Sleep tight

[Asker]

What

[BoopBoopBeep]

You SHOULD give up. Without being rude, she's made it really clear she's not interested in you. 8 billion people in the world. Move on.

[Asker]

I know man she loves me too but it’s just the distance

[BoopBoopBeep]

No she doesn't. People that loved each other stood by while their loved ones went off to the frontline to fight the Nazis, possibly to never return again. They would maybe get a letter every month. How much "distance" do you have now? Is she on the moon? No? Then she was just trying to be polite and save your feelings while she can still go out and get some on the weekends.