So I have been good friends with this girl now for about 2 years and it’s had its ups and downs and she text me and calls me all the time. However recently she told me she’s going to visit a guy friend and stay with him for a week and I just feel like I don’t agree with it because if something were to happen between them I’d be really upset (childish I know) but I do understand I can’t tell her to not go because She’s her own person so I won’t. she said she doesn’t like him but obvi enough to visit and his girlfriend just broke up with him. I have told her I don’t like it and think it’s weird because she’s only known him not too long. So I’ve told her I can’t and will feel bad for ignoring her but I feel I need to put me first because it’s been driving me crazy over the thought of her trip because I guess I like her. Any advice?
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If talking to her will interfere with your daily life, then it's the right thing to do. But I think you should keep her as a friend.
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If it hurts you too much, walk away. Friendships come and go; you will have to learn how to get rid of toxicity in your life.
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Well, you must have always been friends. If not, she wouldn’t have found another male friend. tell her once again how you feel. But don’t dump her.
I think its pretty obvious that you are into her more than just being a friend, so why not tell her how you feel?
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