What's a polite way to tell someone you don't want to talk with them anymore?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if anyone care about this stuff. If you spend a little time to read and help me, I'd really appreciate that.

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I was scrolling facebook when I saw this guy's face. He wasn't the handsome/smoking hot kind of guy, but he is my type - slim, nerdy and seems to be decent. So I sent im my friend request, he accepted. I started the conversation first, and he replied me with enthusiasm. From then on, he always the one who texted me first.

He's 30, I'm 22. We're both single. I always choose the topics that are easily to discuss about, to keep our conversation going and everyone can have good laughs. He asked me basic questions and gave me generic compliments, such as he thinks I'm smart, have a strong personality and responsible, etc... and he wants to meet me in person. I told him I wasn't ready to meet him yet, but I would like to know him better.

Then the conversation began to fade, I can feel that he gradually found less thing in common to chat with me. He said he wanted to meet me in real life, but afraid I would be disappointed about him. He told me he only had a college degree, while I hold two bachelor's degree and planning to become a master in my major subject. I said there's nothing wrong with that, and he avoided.

Then he stopped texting me for a long time. One day, he posted a picture with the caption, lowkey saying that he used to love someone but he couldn't make it. His friends asked him 'What's wrong', or 'Are you interested in someone' and all he replied was he's fine, he wasn't inerested in anyone, only wanted to focus on work.

I feel like he was implying he didn't want to tallk to me anymore. He could always tell that directly to me, I'm completely ok with it. Why? Is there something wrong with me, or him?
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[Love2Jackit]

No he probably felt intimdated. Any woman who has 2 bachelor's degree and working on master. I would say you are woman who can easily scare a man away. Reason being you are so well educated. He knows he would have a hard time carrying on a good conversation. Another reason is he probably didn't want 2 stand in your way or be a distraction. Just give things time. You truly sound like a woman who has got it 2 gather. Best of all you know what you want in life. Which is a good career in your field of study. Good luck

[Asker]

Thanks. I will let things happen naturally. :D

[MusicMayhem]

You friendzoned him when you said you weren't ready to meet him so he lost interest. At least from a guys perspective that's how it comes across. Or that you don't trust men cause you've been burnt before and aren't ready to date again. When guys get that vibe from women they know they are wasting their time.

[Passionate790]

He doesn’t feel like he’s compatible with you. Yes! He likes you! But he’s afraid you wouldn’t go for a guy like him because he has low confidence in himself. You need to talk to him and let him know you accept him for who he is.

[Dav1ss]

He sounds intimidated and its likely by your intelligence he is being immature don't worry about him go get your degree and wait till there is a guy that wants you back
Also you really have your life together you go girl

[Anonymous]

this post sadly reminds me that I attempted to reconnect, or rekindle, renew a friendship with a childhood friend that which me and him parted our ways, drifted apart with, grew apart with, around the beginning of high school, it really was painful getting the response that he didn't want to reconnect or speak to me, because I know that me and him never had an argument or fight, disagreement, it's not like we ended our friendship on a negative, sour note, we just kinda stopped being close, I guess that's part of growing up.

It hurt because this person was like my earliest friend, me and him were in preschool when we first met.

[Syrian_survivor]

People change so much during highschool years, they can transform and change to completely different people it's crazy, I feel you

[Opinion Owner]

@Syrian_survivor ya, it really was painful

[spartan55]

He took you not wanting to meet IRL as being rejected, and I can't say I blame him. You can chat online until pigs fly but the live chemistry may well be different. I don't see the point of talking to someone online very long if you are interested.

[Arielbubble]

No honey its definitely him sweetie. If he can't tell you properly then he's not worth all the hassle honey. Sounds very nice n sweet but really he's a bit too self absorbed in himself in reality. Also if he was really fine why did he talk e bloody ages replying to you later? Why n as he you worried about him? That's not nice at all hun. Forget him he's not worth it. All the best sweetie xxxxx

[loveslongnails]

Why would there be something wrong with "you", because he's being a child? He's not the guy you're looking for.

[Ripper_E]

Not everyone is good together. Accept it and move on. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.

[sasukeuchiha7]

Probably just wasn't able to keep the flow going. Sometimes you like someone and it just fades. It's neither of your faults, sometimes you just lose interest.

[Fuentes]

Wow you over think way to much, lol how some random chick gonna hit me up and not wanna meet up? Boring haha im moving on and you just met tge dude too im sure that post wasn't even about you lol

[John_Doesnt]

The most polite way is "Shut up bitch, I wanna watch my stories".

[Anonymous]

I just fully explain why I don’t want to talk to them

[VaIiant]

I would confront him straight on about it.

[7jesn722j]

No need to be polite about this

[brittslitt]

he's intimidated by you and it's not your fault.

[brittslitt]

Did u tell him about your education?

[Sabretooth]

He has very poor self-esteem