How do you tactfully tell someone to go to hell?

[MysteAngel]

Long story short my boyfriends ex sent his sexy messages and I was way too polite when I asked her to refrain from such topics and she told me she would talk anyway she wanted with anyone she wanted. last night she told him she loves him and not in the "we're just friends" way. I'm done playing little miss nice nice I don't mind them being friends, but I do mind when someone speaks to anyone else's boyfriend that way especially when they supposedly have one of there own. I need help being nice but not so polite without being overly rude

[Aizou]

---I'd like you to go to Hell, do you need directions or can you find your way on your own?

---In the future I believe it would make you happier if you refrained from attempting to have contact with myself since I see no benefit in such contact for either of us.

---I haven't got time to have this very important conversation with you now as I have my toenails to cut, and unforunately my schedule is full until you die. However, I'm sure the psychologist has time free if you want to offload your bullsh*t on her. Have a nice day!

that is all.. ^-^

[MysteAngel]

I love those

[Aizou]

I thought they were good.. ^-^

but I agree with the anon girl, talk it out with your

boyfriend before going off on her.. ^-^

[BlueSJ]

LoL that was funny.

The best answer, please! :P

[MysteAngel]

I'm googling insults this is really fun, using big words to insult the simple minded yay :)

[Aizou]

it kinda give a better impact if you're using big words

or politely telling someone to die.. ^-^

but remember to keep a cool head before getting

into a heated situation ^-^

[SpunkNiel]

Love this .. xD

[Anonymous]

It's different for men and women.

Women should demurely avert their eyes when speaking to the offender and say "I find your comments reprehensible and not appropriate for conversation in civil society."

A guy should grab his crotch with one hand, shake his package furiously and yell "F*** OFF!"

[MysteAngel]

See here's the problem I'm not just a woman I am a Southern Irish woman we don't have that cute little voice in your that tells you not to do something or that's a tad harsh

[may04]

He needs to be the one to tell her. Anything you say will be disregarded immediately and hold no weight. Talk to your boyfriend about it, and make sure he knows your feelings on the situation, and that he needs to be absolutely clear when addressing her.

[Anonymous]

i think you should talk to your boyfriend and calmly express your feelings about it. hopefully he'll understand and put a stop to her behavior.

you talking to the girl is going to do absolutely nothing because she has no respect for you.

[MysteAngel]

He's too nice and cares about making everyone including her happy. She has no respect for herself and I'm fine with causing a scene and being the bad girl, when it comes to defending what is right not only for me but in general

[Opinion Owner]

at least try talking with him first about it before you go off on her haha

[MysteAngel]

Deal if he doesn't go off then I will she has to learn this isn't right

[bDizzie]

I agree, your boyfriend needs to handle his business.

[EquineJewel]

girl if she's pissing you off then tell her so and tell her to mind her own f***ing business in her own relationship. Remind her that he is YOURS now and not hers.

same thing happened to me with 2 of my bfs exes

[AndyWes]

You say politely, "Goest thou to hell, and swiftly please, and there may Azmodaeus himself suckle from your diseased teat! "

[7gnat]

Why be mad at her? He is letting this happen.

[MysteAngel]

I'm mad at him too but he wasn't replying sexually or saying anything back to her he just didn't want to ruin a friendship

[7gnat]

A bullsh*t friendship is as or more important than his gf?

[MysteAngel]

No it's over now no friendship at all

[7gnat]

Jealousy is crap and real friends should withstand anyone you date.

[jokersgirl]

tell her to go to hell, straight up