What do you think it the lesbian dating app HER telling it's users to delete the app if they refuse to date/hook up with biological men?

[worldscolide]

They literally call lesbians transphobic tell them to delete the app if they won't date MTF trannies.. In other words biological men. It seems if you're in the special alphabet group you're not immune from being called a transphobe..

www.nbcnews.com/.../lesbian-dating-platform-sends-message-transphobes-delete-app-rcna82049

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Rumor has it they are banning people for adding to their bio "no trans people"

[Sensmind]

I must admit I would be wary of any dating app telling me who to choose or pointing me a certain direction. It is very much like a remark I am reading here from another user that choosing a person is a preference not a result of a phobic or prejudiced response.

I know for a fact that if I was using a dating app that 100% of my "Likes" or "Contacts" would fall into certain parameters. I would probably ignore the "Official" advice of the app and just "Like" or "Contact" those who interest me , a side effect of which is they fall into a particular group wide enough for me but probably not wide enough for some.

I approach these things like being in traffic, if I stay in my lane and you stay in your lane, we will all move forward smoothly. Lets not make a big issue out of something that shouldn't be an issue. Leave the options open and then the person using the app can narrow the "Likes" and "Contacts" to their own tastes or preferences.

[OlderAndWiser]

It's all about mind control and submission.
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[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO! (Photo is a still from "They Live," a John Carpenter movie.)

[Poliker]

I hate how women hurt women like this. I hate it with all my heart. This should be an app where women are the top priority and even here, we are getting sidelined. It is very disheartening, and thank you for posting about this. I do not think I would've heard about this situation otherwise. I hope that all of the women LEAVE THAT APP because on an app all about women meeting women, explicitly wanting to meet only women on that app is seen as a negative thing.

On another note, this is just men crossing the boundary to make life for women that much harder/annoying. And not even real men, the cowards that cannot live up to the mantle of manhood.

[worldscolide]

Trust me on this, you're preaching to the choir. I am sick and tired of these mentally ill trannies invading women's spaces and taking what belongs to them. It sickens me to the core.

[Agape93]

It's retarded. Not wanting Trans people is not a phobia, it's a preference. No different than any other.

[worldscolide]

Got that right. I can no more change a lesbians preferences than I could change a straight man's

[Agape93]

Exactly. Whether you consider a trans woman a real woman or not, a lesbian is a lesbian because she has 0 interest in dick.

[worldscolide]

Exactly.

[Agape93]

Im bi. Be honest with me and I'm good. But a full lesbian will feel betrayed and endangered with shit like that. That's how you get stabbed.

[worldscolide]

Exactly. It's the same with straight men and trannies failing to disclose their status before trying to have sex.. Honesty goes a very long way with me. I'd not be upset, but it would end any association beyond friendship with that person.

[Agape93]

Yeap. Just tell me, I won't judge and I don't rightly give a shit. But do not lie to me or hide things like that from me. I consider that a betrayal and I do not handle betrayal in a healthy manner.

[Agape93]

Yeah it may result in drama or a lack of action. Suck it up, that's just how life is.

[worldscolide]

Its one of the things my wife likes about me. Im honest to a fault. She never has to guess lol.. Even if the truth is something she doesn't like.

[Agape93]

Good man

[Poppymarie]

Damn. Can nobody have preferences anymore? I’m a straight woman and I would not want to date a transgender man. I don’t hate trans people; I just want to be with a biological male. Just because you’re not attracted to a certain type of person does NOT mean that you hate or even dislike the entire group. Everyone should be able to have their own dating preferences without being judged.

[ShesRad80]

at some point this world was bound to turn into lord of the flies. where everyone and every group will attack even their own, its insanity

[TrueConfection]

The lesbians supported the tran community 100%. They reap what they sow.

[Avicenna]

That's beyond insane.

[Fuentes]

They supported it, it what they get.

[LiamJHayden]

It's insane.

[Anonymous]

you guys are out of your fucking minds, 😂