Why men like older women and don’t like young girls in their 20s?

[Anonymous]

I notice men only like my mom

and don’t like me. My mom is fat and I am very skinny. If I had a happy relationship I would gain weight living with a guy daily but I have no partner in my life so I’m skinny built like a 12 year old and very short have a baby face. Like Becky g and Ariana grande. young Men my age drool for my mom and they don’t like me. I don’t like teenager little boys. So how I’ll get a boyfriend if men my age only like my mom & not me? I need a man not a little boy in highscool

[Berethor]

Are you serious? petite girls are pretty popular, most men date women younger than themselves, Ariana Grande is married, and if even Shauna Rae can get a man, you should be able too. By the way shortness is associated with femininity and not only with youth.

https://nypost.com/2023/01/23/im-dating-a-23-year-old-woman-who-looks-like-an-8-year-old-girl/

[Asker]

Shauna Rae I don’t believe that guy likes her lol I feel he is using her for fame

[Berethor]

Maybe, what about Ariana Grande? young looking women tend to look pretty, no?

www.whosdatedwho.com/.../ariana-grande-and-dalton-gomez

[inhua]

this doesn't sound believable at all. and I don't buy the notion, you don't have any options if you are who you describe yourself to be. you simply don't like or are ignoring your options because you don't find them attractive enough for whatever reason

as far as your mom having options is concerned, be happy for your mom. perhaps these men who like your mom ain't shallow and maybe you should take a page out of their book

[Asker]

They are shallow. They like my mom cuz she’s thick and I’m very skinny

[inhua]

again which men are shallow? the men who you want that want your mom over you or the men who want you that you're ignoring?

[Asker]

The men that like my mom are shallow they like her cuz she’s thick and cuz I’m skinny men don’t like me that’s y men like my mom cuz of her body she is thick men hate skinny girls

[inhua]

before you claim men don't like you, are you sure you don't have any options? Becky G and Ariana Grande have options, I don't believe you don't have any options yourself

[Screenwriter]

All men don't like older women. Most young men date and hang with women near their own age.

But, maybe your fat mom has a great, fun personality that these guys like. And if you look like a 12 year old, as a grown man, I wouldn't find that particularly appealing either. Go lift some weights and develop some healthy curves. Might help in the dating department.

[Asker]

Yes I’m
Very skinny. Need lift weights.

[Asker]

My boyfriend was super short same height at me, we were both same height as a little kid lol 🥲

[Asker]

But maybe to another guy that’s tall, he won’t think I’m a hot women

[Screenwriter]

Girl, work on your self esteem!!! Get up in the morning and say, I'm Hot! I am hotness personified. WOrk out and get fit. Improve your physical stamina. Wear flattering clothes. Dress like a grown up, not a little girl. Get a fashion consultant, or good friend to work with you. Good luck.

[Asker]

How do grown ups dress? I wear tight dresses and crop tops tight jeans only

[Asker]

I will try to work out but I’m so skinny from depression 😔 I neevr can gain weight. My mom always says when you are fat it means you are in healthy happy relationship and when u lose weight it means u r unhappy

[Screenwriter]

OK, NOW we come to the crux of the matter. You are depressed. Why aren't you getting help for your depression! See a counselor. You might need medication! Is there some reason for your depression or has this been a long-term problem with you? Make an appointment to see someone and talk about this. THIS is what you need to work out. Depression WILL affect your appetite and your outlook and your self esteem and your ability to achieve. Get help so you can feel better.

[Paulalove98]

It depends on the guy? Some prefer younger, some prefer older. You should have no problem attracting an older guy especially since you seem to present yourself well for your 20s. Those guys are out there, if not aim for someone your age? Shouldn’t be too hard.

[Asker]

Men my age only like my mom

[Asker]

How I’ll get a boyfriend if men only like my mom and don’t like me?

[Asker]

I hate my body I’m not thick I’m too skinny. Men like only thick bodies with meat 😓

[Summeroflove]

Okay. Every guy is different and not a good way to speak of your mother. Maybe it’s your behavior and attitude that chases guys away

[Avicenna]

Most men prefer women in their 20s

[Steelcore5280]

When you describe yourself as "built like a 12 year old," that might be part of the problem.

What avout your personality, too? If you have a rude and bitchy personality, men are gonna pick up on that real quick and maintain a safe distance.

[crossdressingrihno]

Okay you described yourself as “built like a 12 year old”
Bro only creeps are gonna look at something that looks like a child and say “yeah imma tap that”

[Asker]

I’m like Becky g.

[glennos89]

Your description of yourself sounds amazing tbh. It makes me curious what you look like. I definitely wouldn't choose your mom over you thats for sure

[crossdressingrihno]

“Built like a 12 year old”
Imma repeat that
“Built like a 12 year old”

[Asker]

@crossdressingrihno yea I’m not a tall woman with long legs.

[glennos89]

@ crossdressingrihno... Thanks for showing us that you are a pervert but you better get some therapie because you need it. Someone writes a whole story and that are the words that you think off. Obviously there is something wrong in your 🧠🧐

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Where did you get this delusion? Almost every guy except those with mommy issues loves young women.

[TracyF]

Your mom is probably prettier than you, so stop bringing potential boyfriends to her. Does she follow you on dates? Or do you just bring random men to her? Either way stop that.

[DextroShade]

You likely look young enough to where a guy would worry about catching a felony charge for hooking up with you.

[Anonymous]

Sorry if I missed it, but what planet do you live on? Here in Earth all men prefer women in their 20s much more than older women.

[crossdressingrihno]

She described herself as “built like a 12 year old”

[Asker]

@crossdressingrihno I look like Becky g same body same height

[Asker]

I’m not a tall woman with long legs

[brandon1122]

You said men like your mom. I hope they don't flirt with her, for example, your friends

[Asker]

Wdym?

[brandon1122]

Are guys around your age flirting with your mom?

[Anonymous]

Your experience is not typical. Guys almost always prefer younger women in their 20s.

[Anonymous]

It's a universal fact that all men, regardless of their age, are most attracted to women in their 20s.

[sheikalana]

Trust me. Men love young girls.

[ItsZaman]

tbh I like skinny ang younger girls.

[Asker]

I’m 26 I don’t like 18 year old boys I like men my age or 30

[ItsZaman]

I'm not 18.
I'm almost 23.
my age is wrong on here.

[ItsZaman]

and who tf told you that I want to be with you.

[ItsZaman]

I just told my perspective. mand you thought I'm in you.
no way.

[Anonymous]

Who says that?