Why do some older men like younger girls?

[day_anna2002]

[Anonymous]

1) They are probably closeted pedos and date girls of barely legal age.. If they find 18 or 19 attractive, they are probably attracted to 17 as well, because there's no big difference in looks in these ages.
I don't believe that a guy in his 50s-60s have anything in common with a girl fresh out of high school and young enough to be his daughter or granddaughter..

2) Younger women are more naive and easier to manipulate in comparison to older women. These kinds of relationships tend to have a power imbalance — the older person can be more powerful because they’re more successful.

[Alyssa_11]

Because they can take advantage of their vulnerability. It’s happened to me so I’m telling u lol.

[cookiecrusher]

No.

Shitty people will always try and take advantage of you, 20, 30, 40, even 70 it doesn't matter.

[Dchrls78104]

@cookiecrusher correct.

[Alyssa_11]

So you’re telling me you wouldn’t date a younger girl because you know she has less experience and is more likely to tolerate things a girl your age wouldn’t?

[cookiecrusher]

It's not about tolerate.

Younger women have more to offer with less baggage and don't want as much from a guy.

Older women have less to offer with more baggage and want more from a guy.

In general. Clearly it's easy to see the better choice.

My wife is 5 years older than me, she was 25 when we got together. Now she is 37. It's not like i only date 25 year olds and dump them when they turn 30.

Most women at their 30 want to settle down, and start to look for better qualities in a man. While had all their dating fun in their youth.

They know they are aging out. Not getting as much attention as before.

But that's BS from a guys perspective. So when she was hotter and younger, those dudes got that that for next to nothing.

Now that she is older and less hot, with added baggages from all the ex's wants a man to jump through more hoops.

Essentially pay more for less than what she asked when she was worth more. Doesn't work that way, to a guys eye, the lower price that accepted is your value.

That is also why slutty women are such a turn off and no man will take seriously. Giving things away for free shows no value, with everything.

You are young right now, at the height of your sexual market value.

Now is the time to look for a husband, now is when you can and should demand for better requirements from a guy.

But most worry about their jobs instead.

[Alyssa_11]

@cookiecrusher Whether I get married now/any time soon is honestly out of my control. Been single for almost 2 years now and I want to date for marriage but haven't met anyone sadly.

[cookiecrusher]

It is always 50% in your control.

Increase your odds, by going to different places, change the type of guy you look for, approach a guy yourself.

Try to be more feminine and relinquish some control.

Or perhaps you are too picky?
Some requirements like height, eye color or etc shouldn't be a factor that much. While personality traits should be more important.

As a woman, especially a good looking woman 90% of guys are interested in you if they are single. Just need filter the ones that want something serious.

Usually more quiet guys, introverts, not always though, but more likely.

Good luck on your search, just try to be proactive, it will pay off.

[Alyssa_11]

@cookiecrusher But at the end of the day you can't force things, they happen when they happen. Also when you're good looking, most guys think you've either got someone/have a lot of options/have very high standards :/

[cookiecrusher]

Guys also can tell you a lot of horror stories how good looking women totally destroy them when they approach.

Laugh at their face, tell him did he really believe he had a chance with her, call him names/creep etc. It's more common than you would imagine.

So without clear signs (as guys, a literal sign could also be not enough🙃) it won't happen very often.

And also yes, guys also think she is taken already. Like how the hell she isn't, just look at her, type thing.

Love is hard man.

[Alyssa_11]

Sigh it’s so hard until it’s meant to happen I guess

[standardguy]

Men dont search financial security in a relationship but procreation induced by sexual fulfillment. So biologicall spoken a 18-21 year old woman is sexual attractive for 20 year old males and 60 year old males brcause they are the most fertile.
Women search security in a relationship and by that dont want men to change again and again to the next young generation. So in women dominated government and entertainment industry there are laws and controlled public opinion against marture males having young fertile women.

[Anonymous]

Because women look best when they are younger. Their bodies are tighter, leaner, fresher, seen less abuse from the sun's rays, also their likely to have had fewer sexual partners. The less touched she is the more value she has. No saggy skin, few or no stretch marks, basically a work of art.

[day_anna2002]

So you men are lucky if a younger girl actually likes you bc this all happens to you guys when you get older

[Opinion Owner]

Eh not really because a younger girl isn't established so she's basically sipping off our income as a form of welfare. Also I am well aware of this happening to all of us. And so "we men" have varying takes on this subject. You asked a specific question about a specific demographic of men and women and so you got your answer. It doesn't mean I agree with it. Besides I personally find younger women insufferable for dating because they haven't experienced the world enough. Too naive still and also the younger ones are overly progressive to the point it feels like you can't have an honest conversation with them
And also I feel girls today are more likely to cheat so I don't go for younger girls myself

[bamesjond0069]

Im 35 my girlfriend is 19. she's attractive in a youthful way, fertile no rush to have kids if i dont want to rush, virgin when i met her, doesn't nag, doesn't have a career, no debt, just likes to laugh be optimistic have a good time, appreciative of me taking her out or on vacations or with gifts, no ex drama ie exs, kids, divorce baggage. Listens to me because its clear who is wiser and more experienced at most things, so no headbutting.

Im sure there's more but basically I don't know why a man would bother with an older woman. The benefit to young women are so great its night and day. Maybe if thats all he could get. Lol.

[day_anna2002]

Yea no that’s just your girl😂 the girls of today are very different like just when you say your basically always right bc your older you know how many girls my age will laugh at that bc that sounds soo stupid honestly and also I’m 19 with a great job love making my money so that whole a older man will support me crap is also stupid bc obviously a girl will love that but there only gonna want you to be there sugar daddy not actually date you and I know this bc I know a lot of girls that have sugar daddy’s

[bamesjond0069]

Uh so most young girls are morons? Do you tell your boss at work what to do too? Lmao

[day_anna2002]

Umm a boss and a boyfriend are 2 very different things😂😂

[bamesjond0069]

Not really when one is more experienced.

[cookiecrusher]

Like it or not in evolutionary term we should mate with girls from around 14 to women upto 25.

I know i know. Later we learned that it is fucked up to "take advantage" of somebody who doesn't have a fully developed brain yet.

Evolution and natural selection doesn't care about morals. Just how to make sure genes get passed on with the highest chance to pass them on again and so on.

We are animals with natural instincts that bother us while we try to use our big brains.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Probably to do with fertility and looks.

A lot of people look better when they're younger, compared when they get older, even if they age well, as aging well doesn't always mean you still didn't look better when they were younger.

The same women calling them pedos are the same ones that justify older women dating younger men by deeming them as 'having options'.

Men can still have kids when they get older, women can't, although sperm quality does go down.

[day_anna2002]

I call guys perverts when they talk to underage girls just I would do with a women bc that’s what they are if you are attracted to underage girls then your a pervert

[day_anna2002]

But when I said young girls I meant young women I’m talking about 18 and older I’m not talking about underage girls

[TheUniqueOne96]

Younger doesn't mean under age, you can be younger without being underage and it doesn't apply to myself, I highly doubt I'd want to date someone significantly younger, I don't mess around with that stuff.

[day_anna2002]

That’s what I was trying to tell you bc I thought that’s what you thought I meant 😅

[day_anna2002]

Bc there was another girl that said I should have rephrase how I set it and she said I should have put younger women bc some guys where talking gross about underage girls

[Guy13]

DUH 🙄. You may be to young to start dating. Older guys, like 40-45 with grays, don’t have to try hard with 21-27 age.
-From what I’ve been told,
”Grabbing something firm is nice especially in front of young pricks like you who can only look at your candy…that only the ‘established man 💵’ can unwrap.”
-BECAUSE, it is Fun for them to procure another Dividend.

[Black20Squirrel]

because many of them have smaller breasts, which turn me on. I don't know if I like younger girls that have smaller breasts, or if I like smaller breasts and the girls just happen to be young. but small boobs, even flat chested girls turn me on. I fantasize about pressing my nipples against theirs. If they are flat chested, our chests are touching really close and I imagine rubbing my nipples on theirs. that turns me on a lot

[day_anna2002]

Dude your fucking stupid I swear half y’all on these comments are talking about actually little girls bc let me tell you now I am talking about 18 and up and I can tell you know almost every girl 18 and up has boobs

[supercutebutt]

@day_anna2002 To be fair, you did say "younger girls." Maybe "younger women" would have been a better choice of words?

[day_anna2002]

@supercutebutt you right but it’s still gross bc he’s an older guy so it still wouldn’t make it right. (Nice name)😂😂

[supercutebutt]

Thanks! But at least BlackSquirel told you his reasoning, creepy or not. And speaking of squirrels, I threw out my mango skin into the backyard and a squirrel grabbed it and was in heaven, nibbling on the sweet fruit left on the skin. In fact, he loved it so much, the wind knocked him over as he was in the process of enjoying his sweet treat. lol

[day_anna2002]

@supercutebutt lol that’s funny I love squirrels

[TallAnon]

Not sure how young you mean, but men are biologically inclined to procreate. A 50 year old man can impregnate an 18 year old for a healthy child, but after 30 a woman can have severe health implications for both her and the baby if they do manage to get one. So biologically, men will naturally be wanting to fuck women under 30.
If you mean under 15ish, that just means their brain is fucked. Like a lot of men enjoy feet for the same reason. They're just fucked in the head.

[Anonymous]

Younger girls are more naive and don't nag men as much as older women do since they aren't used to their bullshit and it's simpler to manipulate younger more naive girl than older woman.

[Vegasrunner]

Womens value is in their beauty and younger women are generally more beautiful than older ones. in my opinion it's just as easy to manipulate a 40 year old as a 20 year old. Woman are more similar than they are different.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner If you're good at manipulation then yeah you can manipulate both easily but if you're just an average assholes then younger one are much easier to manipulate.
And I don't get the whole younger women are more beautiful cause younger women are really chubby and weird nowadays (obsessed with non binary stuff and all those shit).
I mean I'm 23 and I don't get half of the stuff young liberal talk about.

[Vegasrunner]

Fair enough, yes younger women are probably easier to manipulate for just an average asshole. I also agree w/ you on the younger = more beautiful theory however younger is going to be relative. What's young to you is going to be different to me. I personally like women between age of about 28-35 I was speaking more generally when I was talking about guys thinking 20 somethings were more beautiful.

[joeldalton]

From an evolutionary standpoint, men and women value different things. Men value fertility. Naturally, younger women are more fertile than older women. Women value protection while they're raising children. Older men are better providers. It's a natural match.

[Iron_Man]

They match up better their personalities and goals. Some older men don’t have kids and want an opportunity

[day_anna2002]

I can’t believe your still on this app😂😂😂 we use to talk when I was 17

[Iron_Man]

Oh cool welcome back

[day_anna2002]

Thanks.

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[Zolly99999]

Depends on the girls for me.. but the image of a younger girl is they are more adventurous, lower body count, tighter body , more energy higher sex drive..
I gave have dated women my age or older and they were smoking hot and ready to rock.. so why wouldn't I?

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Good question.
I think it depends on the man. Some for looks, others to be the more mature and experienced one of the family.

I like to protect my girl, and for whatever reason, it just feels right being the older one.

[OpenClose]

Basically our maximum age ages somewhat with us, but our minimum age doesn't advance much.

I imagine it's similar with women, but the other way around.

[KrisPW]

I think men just have an age range that grows wider as they age, instead of moving with them.

[Dkc123]

"Some older men?"
How bout all/almost all.

[jennifer_bloom]

Younger girls are more responsive and sensitive because they do not have experience, so they are easier to impress and less work to bond with.

[cookiecrusher]

While older demand more but offer less. Not really a hard choice 😗

[Adam1978]

Because people mind doesn't age, just their bodies people are attracted to the same as old as you are as young. Goes for both genders.

[KingD98]

Girl beauty are prime time around 23 & anything over 5-6 year difference is to weird for me personally.

[Ekiewlen]

I wish I knew. Everyone attracted to different things.

[PeterCruz]

Generally creepy in my opinion. Usually use money to do it.

[day_anna2002]

Money to do what?

[PeterCruz]

Offer them lifestyles that older people can afford. Or just bank roll them for attention

[In_Trance]

Men are attracted to youthful beauty; women are attracted to mature stability. This is biological, not social. It's been this way as long as humans have tracked their own behaviours

[day_anna2002]

Well I’m 19 and all my friends think it’s gross I like older guys so I’m starting to think this generation is changing 😅

[In_Trance]

Your friends are uneducated. This hasn't changed in thousands of yours, is universally accepted in all facets of society and won't change. Again, it's biological, not social. Your friends think it's gross, because their options are based on socialism.

[day_anna2002]

Well a lot of my friends think it’s gross that a guy that can be our father is cat calling us

[day_anna2002]

Or when an older man has a daughter the same age as us starts liking us honestly that one I do think it’s weird

[day_anna2002]

For the most part with me if a man is cute Imma like them idc what age only if there cute tho and nice

[In_Trance]

Again, it's not hard to see if people research. It's prominent in all aspects of life. Socialism is what speaks against it in an attempt to control the masses

[Anonymous]

That’s the norm. Most men like younger girls. Men who don’t like younger girls are the exception, not the norm. Young women are liked because they’re attractive as partners obviously, it’s pretty straightforward.

[Now_Here]

Probably because of looks or could be something related to personality.. Gullibility or innocence.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Because some of them are fucking smokin.

You wanna do this again? We can do that.

[day_anna2002]

No that’s why imma block you😘

[MrtoddsWildRide]

They haven't become miserable hags that hate us yet. Of course I am only really basing that description on my ex wife so take it with a grain of salt

[genericname85]

Cause younger girls like older men. There's some mutual biological evolution benefits in that.

[SaintZameer0]

What's wrong in loving younger girls?
I do also love younger girls.

[day_anna2002]

Depends how young you like them?

[Anonymous]

Because they often look better and less wrinkles. Problem is younger attitude isn't liked that much so lot of men see it ideal to find a women who looks 24 but acts 34. Many women would prefer hot male athlete over a fat balding business dad

[nawtee_me]

I have always liked younger girls and probably always will. @day_anna2002 Do you mind older guys?

[day_anna2002]

I definitely have a limit to how older I like them

[Bald-n-Boastful]

In general I like chubby women with low self esteem regardless of age, as long as they ain’t underage or elderly that is….

[Anonymous]

Older women are flabby, saggy and have loose vaginas. Older women are also are less fertile and less likely to produce healthy offspring. From an evolutionary/biological standpoint, why WOULDN'T men prefer younger women? Our species would fail if they didn't.

[day_anna2002]

Dude your talking about a grandma 😂😂

[day_anna2002]

Literally grown women are goddess there Beautiful I just think you don’t get a lot of pussy that’s what happen

[Waldoe]

many possible reasons... NOT bitter... Not angry... NOT cruel... Not old

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t know why I like girls a couple of years younger than me

[Tellme]

Because younger girls are attractive?

[day_anna2002]

What’s your age limit?

[Tellme]

Age is just a number. As long as the girl is an adult and of legal age, I don’t look at the number. It’s the other things I care for, attraction, love, similar mindset, great conversation, etc.

[day_anna2002]

Ohhhh ok makes sense thanks

[Tellme]

You’re very welcome.
And feel confident and happy about dating whoever you want to. Don’t listen to narrow minded people who tell you this and that isn’t right. 😊

[Anonymous]

Older women tend to get angry and jaded. Young women are usually just down for whatever.

[Avicenna]

We’re hardwired to want fertile women

[Lliam]

Appearance, plain and simple.

[Anonymous]

Its biological nature we as men seek high fertility and youthfulness we very visual

[daster4442]

not me.

[daster4442]

i mean i dont hate younger girls but am attracted to my age or older.

[day_anna2002]

Well that’s good!

[daster4442]

Thanks

[KATaylor]

This is a good question.

[MarkyMark77]

@kataylor do you like older guys?

[KATaylor]

@MarkyMark77 most guys I know are older than me I guess you could say that

[MarkyMark77]

@kataylor how much older of a guy would u be willing to date?

[Anonymous]

99% of men are ehebophiles

[oldermale]

Because some younger girls like older men. 😊

[Anonymous]

they're creeps

[MrTaboo]

Cuter, less bitchy, funner, far less baggage

[noohair]

The caveman part of the brain.

[Twalli]

They appear more attractive

[Anonymous]

Same reason some younger girls like older men.

[Fuentes]

Who wants someone aged out & not fertile lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They're more fertile.

[Neko-Nya]

Why does anyone like anyone

[Levin]

ddlg?

[Zygum]

Younger girls are less used , they are tight

[888theGreat]

Take a wild Guess

[day_anna2002]

I don't know

[Reijen]

Greater fertility.

[Anonymous]

stupid question

[day_anna2002]

Stupid comment

[Erron_Black]

Maybe for fresh

[Ahabibofficial]

For tight pus*sy 😘

[fireforeffect]

Because women their age cannot keep up.

[day_anna2002]

Keep up with what

[Yellovv]

Because of tight pussy...

[day_anna2002]

Dude whattt i don’t know what type of younger your talking about wierdo

[Yellovv]

Exackly, you ask that..

[day_anna2002]

But your stupid for thinking that younger people all of right pussys I hope you know 18 year olds now in days are already having kids

[Yellovv]

I don't know you should tell me about it...