Why do both skiny and silm guys have no chance with modern day women?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

They do have a chance. All women are different. You have to find who wants you and just move on from the rest

[richardcory]

Lots of women like slim men. That doesn't mean they like ALL slim men, you need to find a way to make yourself interesting / attractive.

[Asker]

The only solution I get told to do is to become a gym lad. I don't get it.

[OldWomanBySoul]

I'd definitely date skinny or slim dudes, no worries ladies if you don't like skinny dudes, more dudes for the rest of us lmaooooo

[Quackthulu2]

Why do “modern guys” spend all time bitching and moaning about how unfair their life and blaming women for their own inadequacies?

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like online culture promotes people complaining. Also a lack of personal accountability

[4ngelic]

you do.. unless your so skinny you look like you eat meth for breakfast

[Quackthulu2]

He doesn’t… but it has nothing to do with his weight.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ll have to disagree with the question. Am a slim guy and have had lots of chances with women. Are you self confident?

[Asker]

I've dated 5 girls/women in 6 years and was rejected by them all so yes to an extent I'm self confident otherwise I would never got the dates.

[BarryLiverstone]

Rejection is a part of life. You had a chance with each girl but you learn why they broke up with you? Think while in our 20s it’s common to have these shorter relationships as we figure things out and learn.

[Asker]

I didn't have a relationship with them? I went on a date with them all and never got one.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok when you said that you dated them I assumed you had more than one date. Certainly if you can’t get to date #2 in 6 years it’s time to find out why. Have you gotten feedback on why none of them accepted a 2nd date?

[Asker]

Nope nothing. The best answer I got was "your a guy figure it out ". I asked my mates as to why but they could only suggest it might be a lack of or not enough. 💪

[BarryLiverstone]

You can work out at the gym and improve your body. But you are getting 1st dates so that’s not it.

What about your female friends. What advice have they given you?

[Asker]

I don't have any. As a majority of women that I come across now don't want anything to do with me. All the women I met with in education years or from past jobs have cut me off after getting into relationships and other guys not just me. I have a job that is better paid come pair to previous. so I should be moving out in 2 or 3 years. So finance is not a problem.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s where you should start then. Make some female friends and start to rely on them for advice and accountability. It will help you in your dating goals.

Bluntly if you believe all women are against you then that’s bullshit.

[Asker]

And if they don't want to help then what the next suggestion?

[BarryLiverstone]

Find new people. Go to new places, take up a new hobby and talk to strangers in a friendly way. Millions of girls out there in the world and most are normal and want friends

[Asker]

I been doing that all my life apart from during the lockdown period.

[BarryLiverstone]

How’s it working out? Have you met a few new female friends this year?

[Asker]

No luck, as I said before women don't want anything to do with me. I've also used apps to connect people in general. For said reason above the women on there add me but then don't have any intention of speaking to me either after I initiate.

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t use apps to find friends, they are a waste of time. Go to church, the casino, the gym, a concert.. be active and meet new people. You said you are doing all that so keep going

[Asker]

Will I'm pretty sure if this contuine when I'm 30 then I will give up completely. Because by then it will look really silly and pointless. It would then be 14 years of failure as people have been saying that since I was 16 as a recuring theme that doesn't end become unbearable.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good Luck

[shades777]

somebody lied to you bro, that's they're main preference

[Asker]

Sounds like a jk.

[Anonymous]

The chances are always there but they are as skinny and as slim as you

[SaoirseS]

They have plenty of chances.

[SxcSierraa]

They do lol

[Asker]

Where?

[Asker]

Exactly, they don't.

[SxcSierraa]

I've dated slim guys before, more than any other guy tbh

[Asker]

But when a slim guy uses hru in his first message, it results in ghosting.