What type of attitude or action turns you off about someone you were initially attracted to?

[Anonymous]

For example if I find a man attractive, but hear him talk disrespectful to his mother, I no longer find that person attractive in the form of me wanting to pursue that man at all.

[DaveJord]

When a woman says that she is feeling this type of way or that type of way, and then gets upset because I don't feel the same way... or she accuses me of not caring about her feelings. That's a sign of emotional instability that leads to emotional manipulation and abuse.

Or they tell you how they feel and you say your sorry that they feel that way, and they say that you just don't understand. Like what is there to understand you said you feel this way about something and it upsets you... I understand and I am truly sorry it makes you feel that way. What am I missing?

I mean do they honestly want me personally feel the same way as they do, or do just want me to be supportive and then act like I don't care? So confusing to me. I seriously hate that mind screw they put you through, using their own personal feeling like a sledgehammer to beat you with...

[BarryLiverstone]

When she’s doing drugs

[Asker]

agreed! this also turns me off. all that money spent that ruining your appearance and mental state could be placed in something smarter for a better future/life etc.

[BarryLiverstone]

Correct it’s not investing in health and is a mental distraction from working on goals