My boyfriend says he only has me, do you think he means it?

[Anonymous]

[Anarcamus]

I do think he means it. I also think this post was meant to get a reply like mine.

Some people have smaller circles because of death or over dedication to a relationship.

In the end, when you walk away... who he is will come out over the next 6 months.

[Asker]

When I asked him if he’s dating other people, he said he only has me

[Anarcamus]

I think you should believe him unless you have proof and evidence otherwise. It isn't your job to be his sole support and you should encourage him to expand it, but just realize if he says that and has friends... you hold an extremely high position in his life, no matter what his actions appear to show.

He is probably worried about disappointing you...

[Asker]

I think it's my fault because we always just go to his place. He did try to bring me to restaurant and ask me what I want to do but I get insecure because I think he looks a lot better than me. You know how people treat good looking people. I had past relationships where I dated men more better looking than me and the waitress/waitors would always give them special treatment and kind of ignore me. Recently i've been feeling used because I just go to his place and then we have sex. I told him that but he says he doesn't have a lot of time, he works full time and he goes to the gym after and on the weekends, he meets with his uncles and cousins and friends. I think he's a family oriented person. I said I feel used and he said he only has time after work and gym and usually thats at night and he said he cannot make time. What do you think? but there are signs that he's serious about me like he will be possessive about me going outside and get jealous when I mention other guys. He also messages me almost everyday. And says i''m the only girl he has and the only girl on his mind.

[Wise4myage]

What does your gut feeling tell you?

[Asker]

Tells me it’s not true

[Wise4myage]

Why?

[Anonymous]

Why does that matter?