Does your 30s suck?

[Anonymous]

Life feels frustrating. Time is flying by. I am stuck in my grind. Money is still an issue. Don't feel I connect with a lot of existing friends. Social life sucks. Don't feel I am doing anything worthwhile at work but it pays the bills. Self image issues: not as attractive or fit as I was when I was younger. Life feels confusing.

I just want to vent this out. Not sure how you guys are doing. Thanks

[FictionalCharacter]

Honestly, my 30s is a lot better than my 20s. Because I felt like I had a pressure to change myself a certain way or do something with my life. So I could be successful in life. But, nothing changed as much or I didn’t amount to anything. Till my 30s came and I was sorta panicking because of aging and trying to earn more money and grow. But I’ve gotten out of my comfort zone and taking risks on my own terms and no one else’s. Which honestly feels good.

It’s like in my 20s I still felt like a kid and didn’t know what I wanted to be when I grew up. Compared to my 30s that I try going out more to events and activities to find myself.

[Molly1997]

My partner and I will be approaching 30 soon. We were at rock bottom and we’ve spent the majority of our 20’s getting things lined up in a good way. I spent several years and got my partner onto Disability where he now receives a hefty cheque each month, they cover our bills for us plus personal cleaners. So not much else to worry about. I work 2 days a week so I don’t get too bored and keep socialized, I also get paid for having a child. We’ve just moved into an acreage and valley and plan to get some chickens and goats soon.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps its time for you to relocate and start over.