Why do so many women look for the man that they want to be with without knowing him and are willing to travel a week later hours to meet in person?

[Sam161]

I told her up front that I wasn't interested in dating that I was online looking just for friends. She feels that I'm the one and we're going to get married someday. We are 20 years apart and I'm not ready to get married I don't even know if I want to ever get married again and I told her this but she's made plans to drive across the state to meet me for the weekend without even asking me beforehand. And I'm actually working all weekend. She keeps telling me she doesn't want to get hurt again but I feel that she's putting herself in a position to get hurt. I tried to let her go easy told her I wasn't interested. She finally got upset mad at me and blocked me said that I was playing games with her. But she was the one that asked for my email address she's the one that's making plans to get together she is the one that thinks we're made to be.

[shades777]

Always thought that was kind of strange to travel a great distance to someone you don't know

[Sam161]

I totally agree. It'd be different if we met with common interests on a dating site and we maybe we met halfway but she was going to drive all the way to my house

[shades777]

You know it dawned on me that she probably cheating, women that travel far to hook up be cheating

[Sam161]

I thought of that too she told me she had broke up with her last boyfriend cuz he was cheating on her with another guy and he was gay. So she left him the search for another guy

[shades777]

she's lying through her teeth

[Sam161]

Well she thought if we were going to date we should meet and I told her that I wasn't planning on dating anybody and I didn't plan on if it was her meeting for 2 years she got mad and blocked me

[shades777]

oh well lol