Do women really believe that men look for the one?

[Vegasrunner]

[Anonymous]

so you speak for all men now?

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous by that logic you would be speaking for all women.

[Opinion Owner]

where have i spoken for anyone? i asked you a question

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner When you provided your response

[Opinion Owner]

It was a question.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opion Owner So was mine. Read the original post first.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but you’re asking as if you know for fact that all men think and feel the same as you.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner that's simply an interpretation that you are creating. One that's not even relevant to the original question. By that logic your response insinuates that you are speaking for all women.

[Opinion Owner]

‘Only guys that have limited options’

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner those are the ones that typically have to try to settle for "the one"

[Opinion Owner]

See you’re doing it right now

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner providing an objective fact is not speaking for anyone it's simply providing an objective fact.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not an objective fact.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Unfortunately you are incorrect. If you don't know what an objective fact is then perhaps this conversation is too complex for you?

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps you do lack logic and common sense like the other user suggested. It’s clear you haven’t a clue what you’re talking about.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner TY for sharing that as I recognize how hearing information that challenges your POV triggers a lot of females.

[Starrrboy]

Wait , you mean it's just me? 😳...🤣🤣

[Shamalien]

Some of us do

[Vegasrunner]

@Shamalien Only guys that have limited options maybe

[Shamalien]

So not true, if you have limited options you can’t afford to be picky

[Vegasrunner]

@Shamalien Exactly which is why guys w/ limited options may look for "the one" Guys w/ options dont.

[Shamalien]

@Vegasrunner logic isn’t ur speciality eh

[Vegasrunner]

@Shamalien Ironic considering your original response.

[Shamalien]

We are different men, Mr. Runner. And the irony of online communication is that most of the time we are still just talking to ourselves hahaha good day!

[Vegasrunner]

@Shamalien That's unfortunate for you. I make sure to listen and understand all POV's. However I recognize some people are limited so perhaps that's why you feel as if you're talking to yourself.

[Shamalien]

@Vegasrunner you’ve made a sweeping generalization so the onus is on you to explain why that is valid if you want to communicate effectively. How can a man with no options be picky? Picky from what? He has two choices, take what he can get or take nothing.

A man with options has the LUXURY of being picky if he so desires. He may or may not be. I have options and I do look for the one. I don’t need to try all the options. I know I want my soulmate so that’s what I look for

[Vegasrunner]

@Shamalien I think I see your confusion. I never said guys w/out options can be picky. I said guys w/out options are the type that look for the one. Partly because they posses a scarcity mindset. A man w/ options doesn't look for the one which is why most successful men throught the history of the world have had multiple women. This isn't really debatable but it looks like you agree anyway. The exception nonsense is more a female trait, and doesn't have relevance as the real world runs on probability. If there is 90% chance you'll die while jumping out of a plane would you still jump?

[Shamalien]

How can you not be picky but be looking for the one? What’s pickier than looking for only one specific person?

It’s true that successful men have lots of options but so what? Believe me when I say that not every man with a ton of options wants to use them all. I’m at a point in my life where I could have a new bangin chick every few weeks if I so desired but it doesn’t interest me. I just want one

[Vegasrunner]

@Shamalien Excellent question. Men that don't have a lot of options will settle for anyone that gives them attention therefore any woman is "the one" men with options aren't looking for the "one" because they understand that there is always another hor chick out there. The fact that successful men is the entire point of the exercise. If you don't understand that then perhaps this subject is too complex for you. In fact unless you are a man that has actually had sex with 50+ women, your POV falls on the side of a guy w/ few options. As a man w/ a ton of options who only associates with other man that has tons of options I've seen nor heard any evidence to the contrary.

[Shamalien]

Men who have slept with 50+ women and men with a lot of options are overlapping categories, yes, but they are separate nonetheless. There are tons of men with lot’s of options that aren’t man sluts like you. Probably just as many as there are of you rabid cockslangers. Yeah there’s always another hot chick but not everyone is just in it for some pussy, these creatures are people, individuals with thoughts and feelings and when you form a connection with someone it’s special.

Dudes like you give men a bad rap