Is it toxic to be rude to people that take an interest in you?

[curlygirllll]

For context, Im very rude to women who flirt with me or like me, because I know my worth and I’m realistic… who would genuinely be interested in me? Like that’s so unheard of. And, if I have a preconceived notion about you, I’m not going to want to date you. Like if you seem mean, I’m gonna want nothing to do with you. This girl who was interested in me asked if I liked girls, I said no and was very rude. I just can’t fathom someone liking me.

[Anonymous]

I am very rude to guys Whenever guys flirt with me at my university, i have strong trust issues and mostly i have seen them flirting with other girls too which is huge turn off for me. So i think our insecurities and past experiences made us all bitter and rude.

[inhua]

nah it's perfectly normal behavior

how dare someone who you don't find unattractive has the audacity, the unmitigated gore, the outrageous blasphemy to find you attractive

[curlygirllll]

I just don’t believe someone genuinely finds me attractive. Like I know my worth. It just seems like a set up.

[In_Trance]

why would you do this?

[curlygirllll]

Because I know my worth.