Could I be ugly? Is that the reason im a virgin?

[Anonymous]

-Girls that are strangers never approach me

-Girls that are strangers never start a conversation

-I have no friends

-Im Shy

-I go out almost everyday (Malls, Grocery Stores, Retail Stores)

-Girls never ask me out

-I have been rejected before

I consider myself average looking, but im starting to think im ugly. Should i give up the idea of having a girlfriend? Will I be a virgin forever?

[SnowedIn]

Is that the reason? Probably not. Could it be one of the reasons? Maybe.

I don't think girls are as shallow and looks driven as you think they are.

The real reason for it? I think it's your attitude. Why? Read all of your questions here on GaG. Your questions are all "boo hoo", "woe is me", or Eeyore like whining. I suspect that theme is throughout your interactions with other people too. Girls notice that. They don't want to date a whiny guy, let alone have sex with him.

This isn't about your looks, this is about your attitude. We know that too from reading your answers in the opinions section of your profile. Your answers are curt or snarky or unhelpful or dismissive. Similar in fact to your questions. I remain convinced that that attitude carries over into your interactions with real humans.

And that's why you're finding it difficult to find friends and subsequently to have sex with someone.

Fix your attitude and you'll find a marked improvement in friendships and maybe have sex.

[Vikkrram]

U can't be a virgin of course you'll get married. And don't consider yourself an ugly , most of the times guys have to initiate a convo even if girls are interested in you.

Yeah being shy can really effect that things been into that.

[Asker]

I swear to God i am a virgin right now, but I will try to initiate conversation more.

[Vikkrram]

What i said that whole life you can't be a virgin so don't overthinhk on that

[Nikki1989]

Do you make yourself approachable? Most women will not approach a man for no reason at all.

[Anonymous]

Oh please, as a guy, nature and reality dictates that you have to do the pursuing, which I will always resent

[shades777]

Dude your 19 relax

[Asker]

thats bad