What do you do in a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

Just date weekly that’s it. ?

[SnowedIn]

You live life together.

It's ups and downs and farts and burps and laughs and tears and burned food and bad breath and weight gain and success and failure.

You support and are supported and you're not alone.

You're side by side and back to back and holding each other up and standing back so they can do it on their own.

You're reading and watching TV and telling stupid jokes and trying calamari and having sex and driving too fast and petting cats and sharing memes.

You're sharing life because the alternative -- waking up with them not by your side -- is a cold lonely hell.

[Asker]

Yea I’m alone daily n boyfriend don’t live with me. He do everything without me

[SnowedIn]

I'm really sorry to hear that.

That's not much of a relationship.

[ikaros96]

Different people have different approaches to a serious relationship. Just going out weekly isn't necessary. It's all about the time, care, importance, understanding and trust you give to the person you're serious with. Doesn't matter whether you meet once a week or once a month, it's always quality over quantity.

[Asker]

Isn’t meeting once a week practically single?

[Asker]

I meant once a month sorry?

[ikaros96]

I know quite some people around me who have long distance relationships and they can't meet so frequently, but they are very committed to each other.

[Asker]

Why they have long distance? R they in different states?

[ikaros96]

Yeah some of them are, and some are in different countries too

[Asker]

But what’s a serious relationship i want to know? Just dates that’s it?

[ikaros96]

No, people also date when they're not serious about someone dating isn't just one thing. Infact, here's just one criteria to differentiate between serious and a non-serious relationship, and that's the difference in feelings.

You dont fk around other people
You give more attention to the person you love
You give him/her more respect.
You trust them.
You are ready to sacrifice your energy, your time just everything for that person.

Thats what it's all about.

[Kaneki05]

No lol. Serious would be doing more than just date weekly. Ya know living together or been together most nights, spending a lot of time with each other and been together for more than some months.

[Asker]

I have one boyfriend but ik him many years and we don’t do nothing serious we just date weekly and this month he was gone seeing friends only weekly or cousins. And plans trips only with them
And not me. I’m becoming in distant with him, 😞 he won’t live with me never as he wants live only with mom
And never have baby

[Asker]

I’m depresed cuz I want live with a guy, be together daily meet family , etc

[Kaneki05]

Sounds like you should look for someone else then. In a proper relationship you are the most important thing to them which it don't like you are.

[Asker]

I found someone else but online. 😔 what kind of boyfriend going on trips with his firends cousins n don’t go to trips with u? How is that a couple?

[Jamie05rhs]

You find out what the other person needs to feel loved, and you give that to them.

[Engin12]

No. I would marry too