When is a relationship serious for you?

[Anonymous]

When is a relationship serious for you?

As soon as your girlfriend and boyfriend

2 months

5 months

A Year +

[imtiaz45]

for individuals, a relationship often becomes serious when there is mutual commitment, trust, and a shared understanding of long-term goals. Communication, exclusivity, and emotional investment contribute to the seriousness of a relationship. The level of commitment varies between individuals, and factors like shared values, time invested, and future plans together can influence when a relationship is considered serious. It's a subjective experience that depends on the dynamics between the people involved.

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[OlderAndWiser]

I have always treated a relationship as "serious" whenever we decided to commit to dating each other exclusively. "Serious" means that I considered her best interests as well as my own in making any decisions about the relationship.

[mandyfire98]

Normally it takes a while with me. I don't take relationships lightly. It takes a while for me to settle into an official relationship because I don't jump into anything that serious quickly. A relationship means a lot to me so I make sure I'm completely compatible before I hit that official exclusive stage.

[jennifer_bloom]

When the guy is no longer showing interest in other girls and you are no longer interested in other guys and when you guys communicate and interact during any long stretches of spare time you have. Loyalty and communication define a relationship.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

After deciding to be exclusively committed to each other.

[Finchie40]

If she keeps coming back for more and makes me her priority

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm going to say at least 5 months... although it only took most Democrat supporters to realize after the first month they made a fucked decision with Bidan. He raped his daughter... what were you thinking? But anyway, don't ever make that mistake and if you did... you're a fa... um anyways

Your relationship is serious when you believe in it and you are both working to build the wall. ... You don't want illegal immigrants and economic migrants just moving in a jacking up your taxes and exploding the drug addictions.

[Nemesis2k7]

Always someone that has to troll and make it political

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Nemesis2k7 Pure and uncut self-entertainment. Just trollen through.

At least you just recognized it and called it out. The troll bait I laid was to get one of those suckers with TDS to blow up at me, so I could ridicule them relentlessly until they cried.

I'm thinking next time I'll go after the conservatives. I'll say, "My sister was into feminism, hated men, blue blue hair, and was a total Biden supporter. She met a man and got pregnant out of wedlock. Then she started to change. She became religious, let her natural hair color come back, and now supports Trump. She got married to the guy that got her pregnant.

I really do see a great future ahead for her and Jamal..." <--Meh... conservatives are harder to troll because they don't freak out over something like saying "I like Trump" or "Shots are for retards" 😂 🤣 I'd have to really lure them in with heavy bait.

Oh..."Women shouldn't be allowed to vote." That bait would be hilarious.

[Lionman95]

I would say the moment both come to a point where they talk about being exclusive. To me it´s important that we talk about it because I can imagine dating someone for 5 months and not see her as my girlfriend but if we stated to each other that we´re ready to be exclusive that´s the point where the relationship is settled and fixed.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Probably just about as soon as we start to expect things from eachother. Especially with communication. Maybe it has more to do with codependency to me but it's a lot of small things that let me know we're not just messing around anymore.

[Phoenix98]

A serious relationship is just whenever me and whoever I'm with at the time get to that point and decide to take that next step. And it'll take however long it takes not gonna put a timeframe on it.

[4ngelic]

when you've established that your boyfriend & girlfriend and are exclusive, and have been truly together for like 5 months +. and it becomes super serious once you reach the 1 year mark

[Twalli]

About 6 months. I am fully committed by date 2, but I don't consider it deep and serious before we have been dating for at least 6 months. As far as I'm concerned, we're boyfriend and girlfriend once we've set up the second date.

[wHolLyGoTgodgods]

When you start to commit from your heart not just from your mind

[petitedollbabee]

Usually after the year mark, but my current relationship became serious only after a few months.

[sawno]

If I commit to her as someones boyfriend I take it as serious as marriage.

[EmmaMary]

When you've both made firm and final commitments to each other.

[JacobJordan]

When I ask someone out. Why bother asking someone out if you aren't serious.

[worldscolide]

As soon as the couple makes it official (first option)

[MysticDevice]

As soon as it starts. Which is why I choose very carefully

[Nikki1989]

You have to live together for at least a year.

[HouseMoat]

Sex

Once you've done it, it's become pretty serious. Why more people don't realize this, I don't know

[Minahh]

When I'm sure that we clicked depends how intensely you're getting to know each other but not less than 6 months def

[JayBones]

Never. If it's not fun, I'm not interested. Why so serious?

[Crankor]

It doesn't have much to do with time as it does with their actions.