Are you the boring one in a relationship?

[spicegirl445]

Or are you adding more excitement

[ohsheeT]

Each day of a new relationship or any relationship you have to keep going forward you have to keep becoming better whether you invent things whether you travel places go places whether you hold hands and walk around the block it does not matter you have to always have something exciting with a smile to keep everything fresh if you get stagnant and things slow down then you become in a rut and when you're in a rut you're not going anywhere you either dig yourself deeper and things get boring you're not growing you have to always be growing at all times that's what keeps things alive and happy like I said I don't care if it's just a walk around the block holding each other's hands having a pillow fight tag team wrestling planning plants in the backyard drawing on the walls who cares anything to keep things alive and fun

Look at a relationship like this remember the first month of it and why it was so good and made you Both happy

It's because of all the things you did and. how you did them.
How you did. them together
It mean you were both. growing and feeling things together

If you stop if 1 of you stop sorry just a matter of time before a fight starts

To answer your question I love to laugh I love to make the person I'm with happy I'm always motivated for new or different experiences

Once one of you starts to become lazy and doesn't want to do anything because they are tired . Then they will start getting so relaxed they don't want to do anything if it's the guy.
( it is most of the time) in time starts getting fat when has sex two min man become selfish out of shape and will think every thing is fine. . It's not because the girl has to look great every day for work friends family. So she keeps going forward when one keeps going forward and is motivated to keep growing because she wants things in life
And he is or becomes couch potato that's when arguments start and everything changes so no matter what either the both of you or one of you has to keep things alive and working at all times making things different and fun at all times otherwise the relationship just stops

[Leapfrog00]

I'm the one in the relationship that cooks, cleans, buys the girl flowers, takes her out, writes her poetry, and does spontaneous things, so I'm probably the exciting one.

I learned though girls don't respect nice guys, so all that will probably change in my next relationship.

[Simslover92]

I'm the boring one in a relationship but I would like to be less boring and more spontaneous.

[DarkWinterNights]

Overall my life is pretty average. I know how to have fun though. I think if you go into a relationship expecting the other person to be fun and spontaneous all of the time, you’re setting your expectations up for disappointment.

[humanearth]

I been in the same relationship going on 32 years.

We are always adding and changing stuff to our lives to keep it from it becoming humdrum

Like traveling, trying new foods, adding a kinky thing in bed and so on

[LiamJHayden]

I am the one who wants to do activities, but I suppose from a certain perspective that can become boring.

[YourExLover69]

I'm single currently but I can be talkative and clingy guy in a relationship 😂

[Ironic_Method]

I'm boring and I'm okay with it.