What do you think about men talking dirty on a date?

[amrutha_prekshan]

Is it a red flag for you when men talks dirty on a date or is it normal that he is just joking about sex etc? I met this guy a while ago.., but whenever we have a date.. he is talking really dirty... Should I tell him that I don't like such things on a date?

[ohsheeT]

I mean there's a time and a place for it if I talk to her it's what I'm in the bedroom and we're right in the middle of doing something just very hot and steamy it's an intense moment but when I'm out on a date there's no reason for it so what you should do is either ask him how long the doctor say he was going to act that way or just ask him why he feels the need to do that if you don't like it he needs to know that so he can stop if he doesn't stop then he doesn't respect you but it's called communication

[Anonymous]

I imagine it depends. Two men can flirt with the same women but one can be a creep and the other a play boy.

The difference is social skills.

A lot of guys just start talking dirty because they listened to Andrew tate a few times or some other red pull person and now they're making an ass out of themselves.

Then there's the real Casanova who knows how to weave in flirting and sexual stuff without the women being put off by it.

It's all social skills and depends on how you personally perceive it to be.

[Anonymous]

It would be a red flag for me. It means he's already thinking about sex with you and even though we all know that's what most guys want, blatantly coming out and saying it through jokes is a no no in my book. Shows he has one thing and one thing only on his mind.

[itsalyssaagain]

Yes tell him. But also it’s such a turn off when a man thinks with his dick rather than his brain isn’t it?

[amrutha_prekshan]

Exactly 💯 lmfao 🤣😆

[mobiusforniner]

Talking dirty on a date is lacking class and character. Unless of course you find such men attractive, then to each their own.

A hallmark of a gentleman is self control. Dirty jokes demonstrates lacking self awareness and accountability, neither of which are desirable in a long term partner.

[exitseven]

A real gentleman would not takmlk dirty I front of a girl. In my life I had more than one girl comment about that.

[Surely]

I saw someone’s idea on cussing and swearing around other people. They do it aside from lack of manners, but because their vocabulary is extremely small.

[Adam1978]

Context is critical how did you end up talking sex? That will decide his character.

[amrutha_prekshan]

I know but we can't love bitches ryt!! That's my question dear

[Adam1978]

Well then you have a problem. Context is critical. If you are the cause I can't blame him.

[amrutha_prekshan]

Yeah i know wt if he's a bitch i mean I'm not into a relationship

[Iron_Man]

Most people don’t talk dirty while they’re going out to dinner on a date

[dudeinohio]

It's ok IF you have been together a long time and are at that level. Otherwise it is inappropriate.

[rienna888]

Yeah I take them not seriously if they joke about Sex on first date

[sidhagain]

Depends on your comfort.. May be you should tell him if you're not comfortable

[Beatrix7]

i like men that talk dirty jokes i do the same

[slay_girl]

Depends on the date

[Anonymous]

Women love it.

[amrutha_prekshan]

No girls love it... women don't