How do guys really process dirty talk?

[Anonymous]

So during sex i would like to heighten the mood by talking dirty or praise partner in bed to escalate their performance.. but had an ex that always laughed and mocked the way i spoke dirty when we werent intimate. He never said he didn't enjoy it and he wasn't good at speaking dirty back but during the moment it may sund good but do guys laugh afterward or get turned on by dirty talk

[Tyrael]

As long as it's fairly low key dirty talk then it works for me. Knowing that she's enjoying herself spurs me on to try harder. That's how I process it anyway.

[Asker]

Exactly its suppose to be to better the performance but him making jokes made me feel he was probably aughing in his head during sex

[Tyrael]

Sometimes it's more a nervous laugh. I've had it happen before when girls have said things to me during sex and I've just laughed out of shock. Resulting in her laughing, slapping me and telling me to get on with it lol.

[Jager66]

dirty talk is great!

if he laughs or jokes after it's not a mean haha at you laugh, it's a happy silly that was fun lets do it again laugh.

[Asker]

Mimicking my voice and laughing hysterically made me feel vulnerable and insecure about the ordeal except of feeling sexy.. made me feel like guys laugh in their mind during sex

[Jager66]

well they don't at least no guy I've ever known does! it's a pretty dick thing for him to do if it's obvious you're a bit sensitive about it and not enjoying the joke though, maybe he doesn't realize it was hurtful?

[Anonymous]

its ridiculous. think about it. even sex is ridicoulous. if you demystify it its just moving your bodies like apes.

[Anonymous]

I believe this is very individual specific.

You know everyone pretty much likes their genitals being rubbed. It feels good. But dirty talk is more about thoughts and fantasies and is more specific.

My partner hates all dirty talk. But I know other people who've said I'm incredible at it.

I suspect your guy just isn't that into it.

I'd probably love what you say. During and after.

[jestingdemon]

It's subjective on how she would go about it and timing but I'd never laugh about it. If I thought she needed to work on it I'd tell her to try different things and then I'd let her know what I like from them

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

I don't process it. If she ain't touching me in some way, I'm thinking about something else.

[lucky1234567]

I think faking doesn't help, if you really feel it then only say it.

[Asker]

Its not fakin it.. there's a diff from heightening the mood by expression and faking the mood to boost ego its a stimulus most people enjoy but being mocked about something you intimately shared is like me laughing at his size i dont get it

[Anonymous]

Yes, many men get turned on by dirty talk.