Is it a red flag for you when men talks dirty on a date or is it normal that he is joking about sex etc? I met this guy a while ago, but whenever we have a date the is talking really dirty. Should I tell him that I don't like such conversations on a date?
Next time he starts up, tell him, "If you are fantasizing about you and me having sex, it's not gonna happen tonight, because talking like that is a huge turn off for me." If he persists, he flunked the final exam, and you need to look for someone else.
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Dating is a skill. Sounds like this guy needs practice. Talk to him and let him know what is acceptable and when. If he refuses to alter his game, find a new guy.
I don't mind it, if he turns me on. I do have kinks but it's a lot harder to talk me into it.
And if you mess up... Yeah good luck.
If he talks dirty on a date, you should know what his intentions are.
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Maybe he doest really knwo what to talk about and he wants too seem like the experienced sexy guy. its like he doesn't have a personality and that's why he talk dirty a lot. Or it could be that he just wants sex and nothing else. I don't know
How many dates have you been on and does he have that vocabulary often when not on a date?
It's absurd. Red flag for a girl. Clearly he wants sex nothing else he isn't serious about love.
if you have told him you don't like it and he ignores it that is a red flag
It shows that he is of poor quality and character.
They're stupid.
Depends on which date you're on.
That's definitely a red flag.
Commitment.
Trash
Which date?
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