I just got rejected by a girl, what are the best ways to recover from it?

[Anonymous]

Like this girl I liked a lot and I see her maybe 1-3 times a week depending on work schedule. At first it hit hard like my whole mood was off I was sad for a day or 2 but now after I told my parents about it they kinda took some weight off my shoulders and said it happens just keep pushing. But I don’t want to like a girl out of desperation to her a girlfriend so what do I do to get fully back? But asking was a big step for me because the last girl I liked I literally couldn’t talk to or what seemed literally impossible was asking her out. This girl I got her Instagram and talked to her.

[Anonymous]

Realize where you went wrong. You misread signs. Or quite possibly she deliberately gave you some bad signs. Either way, her rejection is just 1 woman's opinion in 3.5 billion on the planet. In that respect she is NOT special. Also look around at you family and friends. They lobmve and care about you. Why do you think that is? Because you're a worthwhile guy godd***it! Don't let 1 woman's rejection of you convince you otherwise. She didn't reject you. She rejected her PERCEPTION of you. And odds are she didn't look at you close enough or get to know you well enough to make a very educated call. So chalk it up to what it was. A FOOLISH mistake on her part. One that she will eventually regret when she she eventually sees you with a girl who truly does see your worth. But by then it'll be too late and she'll just have to live with that decision. For the time being you just keep being you. Get bigger and better dawg.🙂👍

[Asker]

Damn appreciate it brother lowkey hyped me tf up lol but you right it’s only 1 girl and she’s not someone that people get on their knees and pray to or anything so I’m chillin I’ll get the next one

[Opinion Owner]

Good! But it wasn't hype man. It was the TRUTH. Always remember a woman cannot EVER take from a man. She can only take what he willing surrenders.

[Vikkrram]

Ok can you explain a bit like what you did , how it started how and did she also gave you some signs that she likes you back also? Or you know that this from your side only?

[Asker]

So i liked her since I saw her on my first day of work and I was too nervous to talk to her and thought oh no way she’ll like me. Then my friend said she wants to talk to me so I talked to her a little and a little. Then one day we were paired up in the same spot and talked the whole shift (10 1/2 hours) she was laughing and smiling and everything. Then one day we were clocking out and I asked her if she wanted to grab lunch sometime and she said “yeah maybe sometime” then I texted because I didn’t think that was a rejection I thought she was saying maybe to my question then I texted her the same thing basically and she said “me and you?” And I said yea then she left it on opened. I felt like there was a shot but maybe I thought something was a big deal when it wasn’t

[Vikkrram]

So basically she kinda rejected yours offer by chosing not to answer this question. So now you and her would kinda awkward with each other like ignoring games going on?

And the other things i would like to say that did she gave any signs that she liked you? Like looking at you and always eye contact kinda?

[Asker]

Kinda yeah I told my friends about it and they said that’s usually a rejection. But for me I think it’s more awkward for her since she’s the one that rejected me. But I could see others being awkward but that’s just me tho. But yeah I was ignoring her at the start so I didn’t have to talk because either I wasn’t in the mood to talk or was shy but she’ll probably be ignoring me now. And tbh I gave her eye contact but I don’t really remember if she gave me any eye contact. But she’d wave at me when she saw me which I saw as just being nice and all but the long conversation I saw as maybe a sign but as I know now it wasn’t lol

[Vikkrram]

Ahh buddy i would just say you tooked friendship as a way that she likes you back.. We all do that But at least kudos to you you tried.

Don't worry things happens and as you grow as a man.

Proud of you Buddy 😁

[strateguy632]

get fully back? do not try to get her back. if you feel sad then plan "i hope i will find someone else, now that i am available" and go looking.

[Adam1978]

Get rejected early on when you don't care. She is just one of many. Don't go around idealising her before you make your move.

[Justaguyagain]

To me, a good method Is to keep your mind busy at something you are good at, some active hobby or your work, or your studies, I don't know.

[Nikki1989]

You meet another girl. Problem solved.

[slatyb]

Date someone else.