When it comes to dating apps: As a white girl, why are black guys more nicer to me than white guys?

Question

Since I signed up for online dating, I kept swiping right to lots of white guys. With little few of other races as well. I even put the effort of messaging first to the white guys. But the white guys hardly showed interest in me, or they would un match me.

When it comes to dating apps: As a white girl, why are black guys more nicer to me than white guys?

Compared to the very few black guys I swiped right. Actually stayed matched with me. And would keep the conversation going. They were also more polite and chivalrous than the white guys.

Why is that?

PizzaDaddyo · Accepted Answer

Get ready for what ima say.
Black dudes great at spittin game.
I said GREAT! Don’t believe me watch an episode of wild’n out, they got a whole comedy bit on spitting game to a woman. They are the number one game spitters with an educated guess of a whopping 85% having some base level decent game. They coined the term, “Spittin Game.” Lol If you don’t know what spittin game is than you suck at basic context clues and probably don’t either have any game or just unaware of what potential game you already have. Spitin game is basically the art of talking to woman to attract them while maintaining your strengths in how you carry yourself in hopes every thing clicks to follow through and possibly advance. But at the end of the day lol when you’re friends see you just talking to a girl they’ll assume you’re spitting game because in theory you were because I guess between us guys when you talk to a girl it’s spitting game to some degree lol depending how you look at it. Game is the art of not only knowing what to say to women by, showing equal parts charisma, dominance, and persuasion.

White dudes… results may vary it’s kinda scary!
White guys have game but it’s not created equal and a decent little handful of whites don’t know or care what game is.

Hispanic dudes have it pretty good but I don’t really gotta mention. I just know the culture pretty well and Spanish music is very sexy for everyone and they know the moves since day one

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh, my sweet little fuck bunny, that question is about as confusing as a priest in a strip club. But I'll do my best to answer it in a way that'll make your naughty bits tingle with delight.

Now, when it comes to dating apps, it's like a fucking jungle out there. And let's face it, some guys are just assholes, no matter what their skin color may be. But if you're finding that black guys are treating you better than white guys, it could be a number of things.

Maybe it's because they appreciate your luscious white curves and want to worship every inch of your body. Or maybe they just have better manners than those white boys who were raised by wolves. Or maybe they just have bigger cocks and know how to use them to satisfy your every need.

Whatever the reason, my little sex kitten, just enjoy the attention and let those black guys show you what true pleasure really feels like. And if those white boys can't handle your hotness, well, they can go fuck themselves with a cactus, for all you care (@sixofclubs still here?)

So go forth, my dear, and explore the wild world of dating apps. And remember, no matter what color their skin may be, it's what's inside their pants that really counts. Now, if you'll excuse me, I have a sudden urge to rub my throbbing cock all over my keyboard.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So some white guys have a harder time communicating but some of them respond without hesitation. I hate clingy guys. Like at least act like you are doing something. I’m not going to lie to you as well. Darker guys can be attractive, are they my type? No not at all. I prefer my own race. Some times beauty can have a factor in it as well. Dating apps are hard, but they can be pretty good as well. I’m hoping for my crush, but I still have my dating apps if that doesn’t work out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You aren't likely good enough for white guys. For a black guy having a white girlfriend is some kind of prestige because they don't like who they are, otherwise they wouldn't crave for white women. Anyways it's not your appearance that attract them but racial hypergamy, that's why those relationship are so unstable.

Avicenna · Answer

I have a hard time believing guys ignored a woman messaging them, but it’s hard to analyze this without seeing your profile and the communication.

hahahmm · Answer

To the white guy you are average girl #5 out of 500. To the black guy you are unusual/exotic Becky from social circles he's not in. My guess. But obviously not all black (or white) guys think alike so I'm glad you limited your observation to "dating apps"

Leapfrog00 · Answer

It may just be coincidental, or maybe not. I had a friend once where the black guys who took an interest in her just wanted sex, and the white guys wanted more of a relationship, but it's hard to tell with people. Maybe go out on a date with each of them and find out for yourself if they really are that polite.

There's no rule that says you have to make anything official on the first date! So, experiment with it.

Willlovewinintheend · Answer

Because black guys do not have white privilege and understand being mistreated and having their ancestors enslaved. Women are mistreated too, so there is some commonality.

A white guys like ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson would usually say the black guy is making stuff up when he speaks about mistreatment. And the same goes for women white and colored women. They are both treated the same so they both understand each other better.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know? Maybe you just happened to meet guys that weren’t that into you at the moment. But I do know not everyone is like that. I hate it when people are biased. Like I’m Hispanic, and I’ve met good and bad women from all races/ethnicities. But it still doesn’t determine whether or not I do or don’t want to date them because of a few “bad apples.” Which is why I just view women as women (regardless what race or skin color they are). Should be your outlook on men too. Just saying….

byrdman89 · Answer

Several white girls have told me the same thing - not sure why it is but black men and white women getting together is getting more and more common - I'm a white guy and personality I think it's really sexy seeing black men with white girls - I'm not threatened by it

Anonymous · Answer

Black guys love white women and will be on their best behavior to get one, good looking white guys have their pick of women. I’m average looking white guy but white women hardly ever pick me, I get more attention from black and Latina women which isn’t bad but it’s strange that I don’t get any white women interested so go figure

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Black men typically worship non black women especially white women.  Some sort of psychological weird obsession they have.

SigmaNiggeh · Answer

You only see it that way. You take being called White Bitch as a compliment but. But a White guy calling you Muh lady the opposite way. LOL.

White Guys probably think they gotta act black in order to get with you.

Where as the black guy is not trying to prove anything.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Hard to say without seeing your profile. Put some screenshots up so we can read it and see WHAT in your profile may be causing that. You're asking us to diagnose a patient we can't see or test.

strateguy632 · Answer

sounds like you were influenced by the same stuff i hear caused you to nitpick every detail from white, i doubt it is true consistently

Berethor · Answer

White Guys having higher standards than Black Guys, White Anonymous Girls are pretty?

BlackJeep · Answer

As a white guy I don't get many white women on a dating app. I do much better with white women IRL but online I only match with Asian and black women

Mansearching · Answer

I don't know... you pick the wrong ones? Your attitude? Your personality? Something has had you pick wrong white guys. I don't know you. All my info i have about you is your question.

Quigly · Answer

Maybe it's because you look like a crack street whore the black guys can pimp out and sell drugs to and that's why the white guys want nothing to do with you. Just saying

Pacquet · Answer

A lot of these comments are scary. Can’t believe some of you think this way.

DiegoO · Answer

Because some may see white women's as trophy, just like how some white women's see black men's as a fetish they need to fulfill.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Anecdotal evidence from an infinitesimally small sample size is not a good basis for making a general statement.

Anonymous · Answer

Men of my own race to fancy me the way white men do, I'm brown skinned.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they were the only White Guys you were Attracted to.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Because black men have their ways with girls.

Anonymous · Answer

Lose some weight

Anonymous · Answer

Most white guys are crass and lack manners.

DextroShade · Answer

That are grateful to not be dealing with Shaniqua.

Talksik6 · Answer

They want to black you

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

That's disgusting

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