Why aren’t white guys as open to dating black girls as White girls are open to dating black guys?

[Anonymous]

It seems like white guys are the most racist when it comes to dating outside their race

[Cammy137]

It's not racist to want to date your own race. Its natural. Studies have found that most peoples sexual preferences stay within their own race. Is it size-ist to want to date a thin person? No. Is it homophobic to want to date some of the opposite sex? No. Stop throwing words like "racist" around when there is no place for it.
Especially since your point is based on your own view of things and not any actual studies.

[Asker]

Lol and yet I see more white women with Black guys.. so it’s obviously changing. And baseing Love off of race is “racist” you don’t love someone cause they look like you you love someone cause of their character.

[Asker]

Lol it is racist you’re are probably just scared to call yourself that

[Cammy137]

No, you just want to throw labels around. Its called sexual preference. I've never ever ever ever heard someone say that they would have loved someone or that someone woulf have been perfect if it hadn't been for their race.
You clearly understand little about attraction and the psychology and biology behind it. Which would be fine if you weren't labelling people racist. Including me, despite thr fact that I haven't said a single thing that is.
If the initial attraction isn't there then there is no pursuit and no opportunity to fall in love. So really it has little to do with love and more to do with basic attraction.

[Cammy137]

For the record. I just researched it quickly and actually white men have a higher percentage interracial marriages than white women in the US

[Cammy137]

Boom! Lawyered!!

[ManOnFire]

This is very common, yes. And they even hate it when white women are dating us. White guys take these interracial minglings as a threat to their worth or race. What's funnier is that they'll defend it as their "preference" but scorn others for preferring black men or black women.

[Asker]

Interesting.

[ManOnFire]

@BaddieBunny12 This is the case with not just white men but others too like Latinos and Asian men who hate it if their women are dating black. They feel threatened like it means they're not desirable to their own women.

[Rissyanne]

Why can't people just date who they want to?

[MayBlythe]

You can't call someone racist for having an attraction, everyone has a different attraction and you 100% do as well so shut up and learn some logic before you make a statement like that and to answer your question Its because they have their own personal attraction

[Asker]

Bitch go put a dick in your mouth

[MayBlythe]

Now why would I do that

[Asker]

Because you’d be doing something more productive than telling me what I need to do

[kittycat119]

Simple preference. They're not going to date someone they don't find attractive and reality is some white dudes just don't find black women attractive. It's not a racist thing like you're attempting to twist it into

[ssing4166]

Girl, most black women know that white guys like us. Hell, my husband is white. Everyone here is going to try to discourage you.

[ManOnFire]

Right on! I love it when black women can date white guys, and I'm black! Lol.

[OlderAndWiser]

Having a racial preference for dating does not make a person a racist.

[Asker]

If you’re dating someone because of their race and not because of their personality or character then it is (:

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't date Caucasian women because they are white; I date them because I am attracted to them. I do not date black women but it is not because of their race; it is because I am not attracted to them. Do you think I am a racist?

[Asker]

So you’re dating someone based on the color of their skin. You’re saying if given the choice to date a black girl who has a great personality and a good heart and is attractive. And a white girl who is a little boring and dull. You would choose the white girl. That in itself is racist

[OlderAndWiser]

No, that is not what I said. You have twisted my words because you want to call someone racist so you can feel good about yourself. I said that black women are NOT attractive to me. It doesn't matter whether you think they are attractive. Do you date people who you think are unattractive?

[LMSwastheanswer]

@BaddieBunny12 would you date a guy who is 5'4'', skinny and ugly? No? Then you are heightist, sizist and lookist.

[OlderAndWiser]

@LMSwastheanswer These SJW's are so self-righteous!

[LMSwastheanswer]

@OlderAndWiser she wrote in another comment that having a big butt and big lips is a Black trait. She is actually more silly than a SJW.

[OlderAndWiser]

@LMSwastheanswer I know that many young people have good values and common sense but some of them just accept all of the liberal indoctrination that is fed to them.

[louiseisaturtle]

@LMSwastheanswer lmao

[Crapulux]

If you don't date me, that's because you're me-phobic.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Crapulux The SJW seems to have gone silent!

[Amur8711]

For me my preference is Caucasian and where I live Caucasian is the vast majority, but I do live in a college town and we get multiple races of course when college is in session. Now I am not completely opposed to dating a black girl, this depends on her personality and hat most of the time depends on her family's culture influence. Most of the black girls I see that I do find attractive end up having personalities. And Also I do have a thing for Asian girls aswell. But yes if we clicked I would date outside my race, but there are skin complexions that I don't like much at all.

[BigBadBo]

I've dated black women.. And friends of mine have as well.. If there's a mutual attraction and our personalities sync I could care less what race the woman is... What area do you live in? Because I haven't really seen this type of bigotry where Im from in new jersey.

[Kuraj]

Because black women are perceived as masculine.
Those are not traits men look for in women, especially men from a race of which women are typically more feminine.
People are attracted to similar people based on genetic sexual attraction.
Black men profit from the extra masculine traits however because those are perceived attractive by women, including white women.

That's it, there is no more "politically correct" way to put this.

[Asker]

Please explain how black women are masculine I’m dying to be amused

[ssing4166]

A lot of black women are well known for their curves, nowhere near masculine. If you ask me, Asian women have the most boyish frames, they have zero feminine curves.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Kuraj]

@ssing4166 Fat asses aren't feminine, small petite frames is what is feminine.
Asian women are by far the most feminine women out there.

If you refuse to accept logical explanation then look up any survey.
Asian women always come on top, black women always on the bottom.

[ssing4166]

Nobody is proclaiming fat, they are proclaiming curves. Black people have to deal with racism that is why they may be on the bottom, but black women by far are the most feminine. America is a white country so any skin tone close to that they value more. Asian and white have lighter skin so they tend to be favored more but they definitely are not better than black women. Black women have the best figures that's why most married white men like to sneak around on their wives for black pussy and that's why ebony porn is watched more than Asian porn.

[Kuraj]

@ssing4166 Right, of course it is racism.

[ssing4166]

Look at the recent porn data I just posted Asian on bottom and black women on top, they like to see our bodies so than manly Asian.

[Lukej044]

If they're single and into redhead men , who are not famous please let me know 😍😍

[20yearsolder]

I guess I'm not one of those guys, I wouldn't have a problem dating a black girl at all.

[Asker]

Exactly because race doesn’t matter to you

[20yearsolder]

It doesn't, not one bit. As long as we're compatible I don't really give a shit what color her skin is

[tzdc21]

Well to be fair, it's not just them. Black women aren't really attracted to white men either all that much. I know because I grew up learning that in my household. They prefer to stay within their race most of the time.

[Anonymous]

There are certainly some attractive black women out there but generally, I'm not attracted to the wider noses, thicker lips, and additional weight that many black women have.
The other thing is that I don't want a black child - I want a child that looks at least a little like it's mine.

[ssing4166]

I'm black and my husband is white. The youngest looks exactly like my husband. So that's not true that your kids won't look like you.

[Danielle93]

I've seen several black women giving birth to white kids (the father was white).

[Opinion Owner]

If I loved a black woman, I wouldn't let it stop me but as an ideal, I wouldn't like to risk it. Plus, if it looks like my child, it probably wouldn't look much like her.

[Anonymous]

Hang on a second... I’m a black man, and im not attracted to black women. That doesn’t make me racist, it’s just a preference. I can’t possibly be racist against my own race. Especially if I have children with a white woman and we have mixed children. I wouldn’t hate my own kids. We are really going too far with this “racist” title.

[Asker]

Your black but you commented anonymous... okay 😂 And if that is so then your probably self hating and talk shit about black girls even though your black

[Opinion Owner]

Again you’re generalizing and making assumptions. There’s no reason for hate. We are all Gods children. Try to have a goo day.

[Asker]

Not everyone believes in God Buddy (:

[Opinion Owner]

*good

[ssing4166]

You're a self hating negro. I'm black and my husband is white. Im not swearing off all black guys though because I'm not a self hating negro.

[RolandCuthbert]

I just don't understand how a people can believe stuff like this. "White" men obviously have no problems dating, having sex with, or having relations with non-"White" women.

[ssing4166]

Exactly, there meant to discourage black women. Most black women have no problem attracting white men.

[Anon85]

It's just what people find attractive. I'm not attracted to dudes, so am I sexist?

[Asker]

Yes lol

[Anon85]

Well then I have nothing more to say. This conversation will never go anywhere

[Asker]

I was joking relax

[Asker]

That’s why I said “lol”

[Anon85]

My bad lol. If it's not sexist, than how is not finding black girls attractive racist? I don't tend to be attracted to black girls myself, either, but it's not because they're black, it's because being black comes with particular facial features and skin tones that I'm not personally attracted to. If someone finds a girl they find attractive, they're not going to reject them because they find out their parents are black. It's just that they don't happen to find many black girls attractive to them

[Asker]

Between you and me I’m just bored that’s why I made this post

[Anon85]

Well ya got me lol. It's easy to fall for when you've met people that really believe that

[Asker]

I just hate when black girls like me get labeled or excluded as being beautiful I just don’t find it to be true

[Anon85]

Plenty of people do like black girls, just like plenty don't. The same goes for every combination of gender and race. Don't let that get ya down

[Anonymous]

Their "preferences" are more strict simply because they feel more entitled.

[Cammy137]

Really? So thats why the most recent study on the matter found that white men married interracially more often than white women? Interesting. I guess it's really white women who feel entitled based on your interpretation.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cammy137 White men marry inter-racially because white women are least submissive.

[Cammy137]

So its lose-lose then isn't it? If they don't marry interracially they are viewed as entitled or even racist but when they do it's because white women aren't as submissive. What are you basing that on exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

@Cammy137 Men like black women least because they think they are ghetto, rebellious, and loud mouth.
Would you disagree with that?
Men like white women more than black women but less than say, Asians and Latinas because white women are more influenced by feminism than they are. Agree or disagree?

[Cammy137]

Id disagree with both statements actually. I mean sure, that may be the case for some men, im not saying its 100% but I see no evidence of it. Especially of the 2nd statement since white male interracial relationships are as you would expect in numbers. Still 80% of white men in the US married white women. If what you said is true the number of interracial marriages would be higher. Its just natural (in most cases) to be attracted more towards your own race. There are studies to support that idea.

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[Asker]

Or they’re literally just racist..

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Do you like white guys?

[Asker]

I like all races of guys as long as their cute

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Interesting

[Asker]

Yeah. Because I’m not racist like some people

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[Cammy137]

Its not racism to ve attracted to certain features over others. Attraction isn't a choice. Besides, white women the US marry interracially less often than white males. Just so you know asker

[ssing4166]

That's washed up b. s...

[jandurek]

Racial preference is documented to be a thing since infancy. It's not racism, it's what we were born with.

[JSmuve]

Probably because most white guys don't find most black women attractive. We all have our preferences. Doesn't mean we're racist.

[Asker]

I think it does.

[JSmuve]

I know you do. Trouble finding white guys to date you?

[Asker]

My ex was white so no. It’s just something I’ve noticed

[Asker]

It’s not about wanting to date a white guy It’s calling it like it is most white guys are racist 🤷🏽‍♀️

[JSmuve]

That's kind of a racist comment in itself.

[Cammy137]

For the record, in terms of interracial marriages, white women were (as you so incorrectly labelled it) "more racist"

[Asker]

If white guys are baseing love off of race then they’re racist

[JSmuve]

That can be said of anyone, not just white guys. But if they don't find someone physically attractive, regardless of race, why would they be with them?

[Cammy137]

She's ignoring the fact that in the US, black men intermarry twice as often as black women. Meaning that by her logic, black women are drastically more racist than black men

[ssing4166]

I'm black and my husband is white, plus most guys I've dated were white so plenty of them like black women. Even if 1/4 of white guys liked black women in the US, there would still be plenty of guys for black women to choose from, considering that Blacks only make up 13% of the US population.

[winterfox10]

Many of the white girls that I have spoken to about this subject has said that they view black men as play toys more than real partners… I am assuming that white men probably black women the same way?

Obviously none of this is true for all white men or white women, I am white and I am more than open to dating black women… I am only talking about what I see as a general trend.

[Asker]

Lol many white girls are attracted to black guys it’s not about “playing with them” that’s disgusting to even mention. I’ve noticed most white guys aren’t open to dating black women and I believe it’s cause they are racist.

[winterfox10]

Nah not really... believe me... white women aren’t attracted to black men for relationship stability. As for the black women thing; it could be racism, but online dating stats don’t lie; men of all races simply don’t reach out to black women🙁

[winterfox10]

This isn’t ALL white people of course... it make me sick to write something like this.

[Asker]

Mmmmk

[winterfox10]

I don’t know you, but I can definitely tell you that the attitude you are giving off now certainly wouldn’t attract me.

[Asker]

Lol all I said was mmk..

[Asker]

I don’t have an attitude. But of course you would say something like that 😂

[winterfox10]

You accused white men of being racist against black women?

[Asker]

Yeah.. and?

[winterfox10]

And I have known enough white men who have been in long term relationships with black women to know that the problem isn’t racial. It’s an attitude problem, for both parties.

[winterfox10]

Attitude and physical attraction (in my experience anyway).

[Arbalest]

Because the media down plays black women’s beauty in favor of white beauty.

[Rissyanne]

Just because someone has a preference doesn't mean they are racist.

[Surwifer]

Honestly, don't know. I've dated various nationalities and frankly tend to be more attracted to other ethnicities

[BeHappy1985]

Lets agree to disagree... At this moment I'd even consider dating a potato. Also I dont know a single guy that wouldn't date a black girl and know tons of girls that wouldn't date a black guy.