A guy I'm in a kind of situationship with whispered "I love you *my name*" in my ear. I was too surprised to respond, though I do love him. Should I ask him if he meant it? Should I just randomly say it to him? How should I proceed?
So love means a lot of different things to different people. So when a guy says he loves you, does he really mean it?
I would say YES he absolutely means it. but do not get carried away because it could mean very different things to different people.
www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/love
Love -
(1) strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties
maternal love for a child
(2) attraction based on sexual desire: affection and tenderness felt by lovers
After all these years, they are still very much in love.
(3) affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests
So just because he might "love" you does not mean he will forever and always.
I mean I am heterosexual man, so in general I love woman. Like I love peanut butter and dogs. But I do not date peanut or dogs, but I do date woman. And when things go wrong in the dating world... I was love the memories we made and shared together, but my peanut butter and dog are still always there when she is gone.
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A moment of silence for our man who said I love you and didn't hear it back. Does he know you two are in a situationship and not a relationship?
"Kind of" a "situationship?" Sounds like it's nothing concrete. You aren't even IN a situationship. People say they love you and don't mean real "love." In the throes of passion it comes out. And you cannot know what "love" means to someone who isn't you.
It doesn't sound like you've been dating or know each other well if it's only a situation, which isn't a relationship. Sounds like it's too early to be saying or meaning much more than you LIKE each other.
But, it's never too early to sit down and have a talk about how you'd like to move forward and if you'd like to end this nebulous nothingship and proceed to going out together and getting to know each other well enough to actually mean you love each other. Good luck.
Just ask him.
Hey the other day you whispered in my ear that you love me…did you mean that? What was that about?
Life’s too short to waste your time wondering.
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Just say it back to him when the time feels right and see what happens
Sure, its ok to ask him. But don't do it more than once.
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