Finding it very hard to date black men?

[Anonymous]

I'm a young black woman. Lately I've been having bad experiences dating black men. I have dated 2 black men in the last year. Both relationships have failed. I find it very upsetting that most black men don't put any Effort into the relationship. Almost like they want the woman to do everything for them.

[Curmudgeon]

Does the novel (and later movie) "Waiting To Exhale" have a basis in fact?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waiting_to_Exhale

[Avicenna]

Sorry to hear you haven’t had good experiences lately. I’d suggest dating outside your race as well, although, TBH, meeting the right person is usually just a matter of luck.

[Anonymous]

I have had nothing but bad experiences with black men so I can relate.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Vegasrunner]

in my opinion it's so difficult for black women to date black men because it's the one dynamic where the man is seen as having more value than the woman.

[Truthatanycost]

You will find it has nothing to do with color...

[Anonymous]

Ah, that sounds familiar. Welcome to what dating is like as a man.

[Iron_Man]

What will you do?

[riverrat3]

Does it have to be a black man