So I have this colleague, with whom I started talking about a month ago and I quite frankly asked her out too soon and she rejected me. But after that we kept on talking normally (initially she didn't maintain much contact but often asked me if I was doing okay). And she still asks me questions like my opinions on various aspects of relationships, flirts from time to time and is quite impressed by my opinions on random stuff. The thing is it's often I who call her and we always end up talking for 3 hours minimum. She usually doesn't approach me first but only for work related stuff. If we start talking then it's always long calls. Yesterday it went further and we talked for 6 hours straight on call! Mostly random chit chat but some important topics like relationships too. She also did lot of trust building exercise like sharing a screenshot of a guy who was pestering her for relationship (she did this when I showed curiosity about what she replied to him on his advances). Even though I didn't ask for it. She also did similar stuff in the past to gain my confidence in her. She says she is single but I am not sure where this is going. Is she really taking her time? Or she just sees me as really good friend? I definitely don't want to ask her out again but I can keep my patience. It's important to note that I am Indian and the girl in question is too (If cultural background would help, since dating is slightly slow here). Also important to note that we both live far from each other and have met in person only once. So it's sort of long distance. Thanks in advance everyone! đź‘Ť
What does it mean if a girl talks to you for hours on call, I ended up talking for 6 fucking hours yesterday?
