Is it possible for you to fall for someone without even seeing or hearing them?

[Hinaaaaa]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I almost fell when I was 19, I didn’t know what he looked like, I knew his hair and eye color but he was too shy to show himself, he would sometimes send me voice messages though.

I liked his personality so much, when I figured he didn’t feel confident in himself, I didn’t want him to feel insecure about his appearance with me, so I never asked him how he looked like. I wanted him to know that I didn’t care.

Truly, I found his personality so charming and sexy, I didn’t really care at that point. We matched really well, when we talked he made me laugh, he would make me feel so accepted I sometimes had mental orgasms when talking with him. I mean, I just loved talking with him.

Later on I saw his photo and he wasn’t exactly my ideal type but I grew fond of his appearance and I often dreamed about him. Had I seen him in real life, I think I would totally fall for him.

[Hinaaaaa]

Aww that's nice

[ShesRad80]

you mean like talking via internet? sure it can happen but a lot of that is how you fantasize the person to be

[asphaltrhymes]

Ditto lady 😄♀️👏🏻

[MystiKaL]

If you've been chatting to a person online and seem to have a deep connection, then for sure it can happen.

The only thing is if you do actually see them in person, they may not look or sound like what you've imagined and therefore may not feel attraction to them on a physical level. They may also feel the same. So you are running that risk.

[Hinaaaaa]

Yeah that's the risk here

[Lliam]

Only in your imagination. If you never see or hear them, you are projecting your fantasies onto them.
You don't know for a fact what they are like in real life or what they do when they aren't chatting with you. They're just an avatar.

And love is way different than infatuation.

[Hinaaaaa]

Yes 🙌

[Lliam]

Wow. Thanks for the MHO, Hinaaaaa.

[Spade_01]

Yeah, sure. A large part of it depends on what you think of them based on how much you know about them. A bit risky thing to do because people are shocked after learning things about their liking in real lives, go figure how dangerous it can be online. If we like them, of course we will think of them in the best of our optimism and wishful thinking.

[Hinaaaaa]

But in other way around you can know them deeply too like some people will not open up right away... but when it's online they show their true sides cause being online mean we are all strangers too each other... no need to impress anyone

[Spade_01]

True, it's easier to confide into people and open up without judgments online. But there are still some things that should be kept in mind like how their tone changes when you say something to them they don't like/agree with. If it's online, they'll express their feelings through words, but irl, their reaction and expressions might something you don't expect, not always necessarily bad. Some minute details of life like their personal hygeine etc can't be known for exactly. And as much as it's possible to be 'real' to each other online, it's also fake plenty of times too. There are plenty of cases of trolling, catfishing, seeking worthless attention by posting half naked pictures online.
And there's a very deeper, darker conspiracy going on in my country to trapping girls which I can't discuss here. Plenty of girls have suffered because of it.

[Spade_01]

Conspiracy made because of religious conflicts.

[Hinaaaaa]

Ohhh yeah right but you can never know someone that deeply untill you start living with them... that much deep knowledge of someone you can get only by living with them like how they are when they are angry cause it's human tendency to hide things when they know someone is interested in them... they tend to show the best version of them...

[Spade_01]

Couples who have been in 'love' with each other still get surprised due to individuals habits after they get together, knowing online toh bht hi jagah Chhod deta hai Jhoonth aur dhokhay k liye. Qismat walon ko milta hoga.

Bht ساری نیوز aa rhi idhr where ہندو organisations are working to lure, kidnap, trap, convert, r@pe, impregnate and often marry مسلم khawateen. Roz کی koi na کوئی news aati hai and I'm convinced ki bht bda fitnah h Yeh sb

[Spade_01]

They literally have videos of these groups who offer money, payment of rent, ration and security support to do this to مسلم sisters. Then news aati hai ki ldki ki زندگی barbaad krdi, Chhod diya ek dum se ya fir crime krke side Mein fenk kr chle gye.

In me se many cases started from offline but online iraade chhupa kr baatein krna, it's very easy and wahin se many times start hota h.

[Hinaaaaa]

Why they are even falling for those traps like falling for Hindus 🙂...🤣well yeah it's always surprising to know people while living together & it's Understandable like no body is perfect

[Spade_01]

Lack of religious knowledge, falling into temptations and sahi ghalat mein farak na kr pana. Khair, considering that one side, in other ways too, it can be a gamble online. So proceed carefully. Good luck 😊

[Hinaaaaa]

🙂Thank you but I'm not going to proceed lol just asking a question... Kbhi ese Kam ni kiye hn

[Spade_01]

TabarakALLAH. Keep it up. Baaki sb waste hai Qur'an, sunnah best h 🗿.
Qur'an 24.26
Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision.

[Hinaaaaa]

🙂✌️

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm not sure, but I'm sure that people, me included, can have an imaginary visual wish list of what a *Prince charming,* or what a *perfect woman* could be or should be 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤪👀

[asphaltrhymes]

Or they base it off a mixture of people theyve seen or qualities rolled into one. If that lookalike ever comes along 😋☺️👍

[Hinaaaaa]

Yeah that's true as well

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yes... Me guessing what they're like in person and when meeting them they're very close to what I've imagined... it's not that hard to happen... but also not easy... Just possible

[Hinaaaaa]

Yeah but if I'm at that place I'll never think too high about anyone cause expectations hurt

[Rockstarrrrr]

Very true..

[abc3643]

Sure although then seeing them can change everything.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Pq2oWVwDhs

[soniaaaaaaa]

By bonding energy? Ummm no not possible at least in this planet

[Anonymous]

Yep like I'm liking you even I don't know about you, haven't seen you.

[Hinaaaaa]

Lol...

[Anonymous]

Sure, words can be very powerful.

[Hinaaaaa]

Yup that's right but you have to be very open minded & should be expecting everything & stop projecting your own fantasies on that person...

[Opinion Owner]

Very true.

[Nikki1989]

Nope, impossible.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.

[Twalli]

I don't think so

[In_Trance]

no it isn't

[Anonymous]

Yes..

[Abdulwahh]

No lol

[Anonymous]

Nope.