Men, do you instantly know you want to be in a relationship with a girl?

[Anonymous]

Do you know before going into a date that you want to be in a relationship with the girl? Do you know during the date? Or does it take awhile and a bit of convincing? What makes you realize instantly that you want it to be more than sex?

[kylee2437]

I god to hope no guy thinks it’s okay to want to be in a relationship with someone before meeting them

[kylee2437]

I hope to god*

[Anonymous]

No. Women typically hide who they really are. So it takes time to vet them. If she lies a lot she'll eventually slip up and expose the real her at some point. Young guys may make this mistake. But as guys get older have a greater livelihood and more to lose they know better than to take this risk.

[abc3643]

Sometimes yes. Most times no. And there's a difference between lust versus actual relationship desires.