Girls when do you realize you're falling for a guy?

[Anonymous]

[YellLow]

When i make up almost impossible scenarios in my head always with him in them.

[Asker]

Lol yeah so you daydream about him

[YellLow]

Yes and im like "girl what yhe hell you think you are doing?" Then, thats the moment when i realized im fucked up, when i ask myself that. But i also have the capacity in the case where it looks like i like him a bit but he doesn't pay attention to me at all, i can manage to stop liking them, its just keep convincing myself that it ain't worth it and he isn't good for me.

[Asker]

Ok so they usually don't feel the same way about you?

[YellLow]

So far, indeed. I mean there's a guy im trying to avoid, i think he wants me bad but 1) he's too young (my age) 2) he's an immature dickhead talking shit all day. I like his friend whose 28 but he looks 20, he's more serious and he's cute but he's very quiet and odious to me. But ik how to handle my feelibgs towards him or any man, im very discreet in that issue. All goes inside.

[YellLow]

Ok i have a serious problem with "but", that denotes lack of vocabulary.

[Asker]

Lol but he's 10 years older but no judgement but I feel you. a lot times the people you like dont feel the same way

[YellLow]

he's right for me, id date a 28 y/o if he looked that young. Now i think about it, maybe the reason he's so stiff around me is my age lol

[Asker]

Yeah I mean even tho he looks young the fact is he's 28 but I you're free to date anyone you want so go get him girl

[YellLow]

Nahh i think he has a girlfriend or smn to fuck ig, and told ya he's so unfriendly

[Asker]

Is he really. Then why do you like him lok

[YellLow]

Thats the only flaw he has, ok and he's kinda problematic and toxic. All im saying id be satisfied with some casual fuck. Oh and he's short hahah But got used to that. Nah dont worry, nothing is gonna happen, he pisses me off.

[Asker]

Ok I got it!! So you dont like him , you just want him to fk you 😂omg you naughty girl likes them older 😉

[YellLow]

Young boys are boring and just talk talk and dont do shit. Plus its me, i like them older 🤷‍♀️ atm id date a 25-6 y/o perfectly

[YellLow]

The only way id date smn my age aould be him being big and hot and matture and smart.

[Asker]

Lol I get you !!! Get you an older man girl and I like them young but I usually guys that old dont want girls like but for different reasons

[Agem123]

When I don't find anyone else attractive.

[Asker]

Oh really so I guess you're not the type to cheat

[Agem123]

No. If I'm in a relationship, then I love him.

[Asker]

oh yeah so if you're in a relationship all your love is just for him. I need me a girl like you lol

[SydneySentinel]

When you can't stop thinking about him. When the phone rings/you receive a text and hope it's from him.

[Elliegirl]

Agreed

[SydneySentinel]

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[ElissaDido]

When i get existed to see his messages

[daydreammarie]

There's so many signs:
° When you prioritise him, like if you drop everything just to message him back or take his calls.
°When you think about him a lot, and get all giddy inside.
°you don't want to talk to any guys besides him.
°you start dreaming about him. And thinking about what a future would be like with him
°Him talking about marriage and girlfriends or girls that aren't you makes you sick to your stomach and hurts you. That's when you really know you caught feelings.
°You want to be the reason he's happy. And if you can't be you try your best to be okay with it because he's getting what he needs and he's happy. That's the main thing you'd want.
°You'd do anything for him, no questions asked.

[FictionalCharacter]

It feels like, you can’t stop thinking about him. You wonder what he’s doing and thinking about right now. All the chores and everything around you feels light and easy. You see a different perspective of your surroundings. Your self esteem goes up and you get more of a confidence boost.

Like you almost didn’t exist but were in survival mode. But when we’re discovered with love, we glow.

[MelissaMarie9614]

When we're in the middle of a conversation. I start to get butterflies in my stomach (in a good way) as we talk, I feel comfortable talking to him, I like being around him a lot, when he listens to me (and I listen to him of course), and by the end of the conversation I feel a smile on my face and I start to blush! That's when I realize I'm falling for the guy I really like.

[Anonymous]

I knew I was in love with my partner the very first time I laid eyes on him. It’s like a flow of butterflies in my stomach, heart sinking, and just like the movies everything seemed slow motion and everything around him was blurred out.. we had an immediate connection from the very beginning.. before we ever spoke a word. Together still after 6 years. We have a child together and I don’t see myself ever being with anyone else. We met on POF 😬

[_food_lover234]

I realize- it's like it starts off subtle, and then it hits me- why am I thinking about this guy. and then I start staring at him, start thinking about him, start taking interest in him. and that's when you know..

[Ash8160]

When he starts talking about another girl and you get sad and mad at the same time. I tried denying liking a guy and as soon as he started talking about another girl I was like “welp! There is no denying that anymore!”

[Primrose21]

When I can't stop thinking of him and I feel giddy or exicited seeing or recieving messages from him.

[R_ūshī]

I always feel like we're really good friends until I realise that it's too late and I'm head over heels about the guy🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

I just feel it pretty fast like I can't stop looking at him, I feel butterflies in my stomach, think about him a lot, think about him before I sleep and imagining cute scenarios etc. Wanting to talk to him everyday, missing him when he's not around.

[Commander_Red]

Honestly, it depends. One of my love languages is quality time. If he can do this, I fall rather quickly. Maybe within 3 dates, but I'll wait a while before telling him as to not freak him out.

[SarahsSummer]

when my thoughts of him take over and are greater than any other thoughts I have

[Sunshinegov]

When I start thinking about him when I’m not near him or when I’m so happy in his presence

[lenlenxyz]

When I go all crazy, make spontaneous decisions, get distracted, try to get super busy with life so i dont have the time to put him in my schedule.

[ElizaPam]

When I start laughing at every little joke he says.

[Kayla45]

When my heart starts racing and I feel a bit dizzy.

[wercik71]

You care about him, you're happy when he's around (even when you had a crappy day), you remember the small details and things he says and you can't stop thinking about him.

[kur0cookies]

When I start to think about that person a lot, what it would be like to date them, wanting to talk to them more often (that's what is for me personally).

[CoolLolaYX]

I get very excited then other time. Should I be doing this.

[Anonymous]

When started to feel so attached to him without him knowing, and i feel empty if he’s not around me

[Curlybrunette111]

When I start looking at his lap 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

😂😂why at his lap?

[Blublub]

Not right away it took me by surprise

[katrina123456]

When his all I think about..

[Clyde_123]

When I always think of him

[Anonymous]

When i read his chat over and over again

[siskar]

When we start caring bt him

[ConfusedAlmostLovee]

When he makes me laugh or feel special