Guys, what goes through your mind when you realise you start to have feelings for a girl?

[Anonymous]

Just curious to hear what about her you start to think about! :)

[Lliam]

Have "feelings"? As opposed to no feelings?

If I have feelings, as in thinking she is cool as well as pretty, I'll ask her out and be nervous about whether or not she will say yes.

If we are in a new relationship (dating exclusively), I'm wondering about her sexuality and eager for the day when she initiates.

If we are in a boyfriend-girlfriend (sexual) relationship and are both infatuated, I don't think about anything else. The feeling of infatuation is the most blissful thing we can experience. It's what people associate with love. So I'm absolutely content and am not thinking about or pushing for anything else. I just stay on the ride and see what develops organically.

[FilmGuy93]

Usually about how lucky I am to have met her. How pretty she is. The sound of her voice, giggle. The way she stares off into nothing when she's thinking. The way she smells.

[Gollum]

Well I think she's nice and we share common feelings, I'll love her beauty, the way she moves, laughs and talks it can be very intoxicating.

That's why one must exercise caution because while a relationship may be nice and sweet it's very dangerous to us men. She may be all sweet and amazing at first but 10-15 years later when she chooses to leave you on a whim and take half your crap we end up screwed.

So one can enjoy the moment, but must never get involved. Divorce statistics speak volumes.

[CloudMassacre]

I get anxiety, I’m scared of jeopardizing the friendship