Guys, What makes you catch feelings for a girl?

[Anonymous]

[Spade_01]

How she carries herself, how much does she cover herself up, how much distanced she's from gossips, bad company and other men and what we call in our language as 'haya'. That's what starts my interest in her. If all those things are in place, I might want to get things done further.

[Asker]

Ok but dont be so jugemental.

[Spade_01]

I'm as strict on myself as I would like my partner to be. Sure, there are things to look into before forming a strong opinion of someone but gotta be very careful.

[Asker]

Ok fine

[Spade_01]

Random but... your profile says that you're from Pakistan. You keep up with the politics and happenings there?

[Asker]

I am not interested in politics. But yes, I am very aware of the situation

[Spade_01]

May اللہ help you country. Seen lot of things going down there in the news.
Big fan of Dr. Israr Ahmed.

-sincerely from your neighboring country.

[Asker]

You are from united states? Or india?

[Spade_01]

Just noticed, it's US by default. I am from India.

[Asker]

Great, thanks for being so kind.

[Asker]

I am glad to know that you are Muslim and from India and you love Pakistan.

[Spade_01]

اسلام کے لیے الحمدللہ
I have mixed opinions about Pakistan. It's just disappointing whatever South Asian Muslims are going through.

[Asker]

Pakistanis are not that bad as the Indian media shows. We also love Indian Muslims

[Spade_01]

I don't care for what Indian media shows. The majority, the media and the government has stooped down very low to make their opinions and stand irrelevant to me. What I feel about Pakistan and Pakistanis is through the filter of اسلام.

[Spade_01]

Here's the link to a video that touched me.

(https://m. youtube. com/watch? v=SXOFiWMHPVw)

[Spade_01]

Remove the brackets and space in the link. I couldn't directly post a link because of my low xper level.

[Asker]

Ok i will 🙂

[Rizwan_khan]

Her way of taking her kind nature or if she has a good humour that really attract to me and the way she carry her self.

[Asker]

Thanks for your response.

[Rizwan_khan]

Your welcome

[Fromdusktilldawn]

when she is very emphatic, sweet warm hearted and has the ability to have deep conversations
when she has some interests/hobbies I have too
when she has a super cute smile
when she likes to cuddle
when she isn't super extroverted but more on the "cosy" side and no big bodycount

[Asker]

Great answer.

[ilovelamp]

If she understands the world, isn't an NPC.
Similar interests and good chemistry.
Decent looking.
And above all, GENUINE with good morals and values, then i may catch feelings.

[Asker]

Great

[Daviddd5412]

Not sure. I think it's different everytime. Maybe something with her eyes though.

[Anonymous]

Body language. Vibes. The way she talks. Eyes. Lips. Laugh. Smell. Dressing. Presence.

[Asker]

Great

[Opinion Owner]

Oh and the confidence.

[Asker]

Means its all about physical looks.

[Opinion Owner]

The way she talks, smells, body language and confidence, these things aren't looks. Its a well rounded sense of her personality.

[Asker]

Okay but i thought u would say her kindness, loving caring nature.

[Opinion Owner]

That comes from body language and vibes. Sometimes you can feel it from her aura thats maybe she's genuinely kind at heart.

[Asker]

Okay 🙂

[alearningboy]

For me it was the eyes, wonderfull light green eyes when I saw it in class for the first time😀

[mommymommy]

Usually its the physical, first

[Anonymous]

Genuine effort.