Guys what makes you see a girl romantically?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

I fell in love with her, I wanted to be with her every night and every morning, and I felt my life was much better because she had become apart of me. I couldn't imagine the future without her being there with me. So I proposed and she said yes.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Anonymous]

It is a combination of all factors. Ultimately it becomes a gut feeling.

[CaptainOverthink]

For context, this is highly speculative, I don't pride myself over all that much succsess in dating.

For me it's when we're both chasing eachother equally over time in an obvious way, not just glances and presence, when we put our hearts on the line by being open and official about that.
Effort matters, it's not easier for guys even if technically girls don't "have to" do anything but invite male effort. That said, it's a fine line and fine tuning to keep it so that it don't seem desperate. So.. make sure the hooks are in deep before you chase too fast.

I'm also looking for intellectual understanding or a curious nature that's willing to change and improve alongside me, ofc that entails being honest to oneself about who you are and what you'll be working on. A growth mindset.



It also would be a massive plus if she has realistic or down-to-earth expectations about living expenses. 'We' are what matters, not the ring, my car or how flashy we are towards our friends. I value experiences and depth over externalities but I do also have a sense for fashion and embodying a superficial vibe but that does not mean I go overboard, there is a time and a place for that, it need not be the whole identity.

[Anonymous]

Her seeing me romantically. The bones are there with probably 50% of the women I see. But I'm not going to be attracted to a woman who has no attraction to me. That'd be stupid.

Why do you think highly flirtatious women get guys attention. Because most guys are too stupid to understand she's playing them.

A word to the wise though. Guys eventually wise up. And at your age most guys are weary of this tactic from women. So you're probably going to have to work a little harder. I assume women are blowing smoke at least 50% of the time... because it's a safe bet.

[Avcfhcic]

Well looks are obviously the first thing anyone can become attracted too.
Then it's about connection and personality to keep it.

I always believe looks are important, but personality and how you get on together is what keeps you together

[serious]

I don't see a woman romantically because I just wish to be single for life. However, yes certain features like if a woman is gorgeous, has a toned physique and in combination with super short BOY CUT hairstyle then that will surely get my attention for a moment.

That's it. Nothing more.

[Freedom_Enjoyer]

Green flags:
- her father was around and they still maintain a good relationship
- no fucked up hair, no piercings anywhere but the belly, and no body mutilation (tattoos)
- not a socialist/environmentalist/feminist/democrat
- supports herself
- doesn't spend more than she makes
- doesn't call her mum and/or single friends every day
- not uber-religious/born-again
- low body count
- timeliness

Anything that confirms traits like compassion, altruism, groundedness, mental stability, accountability, sweetness, rationality, honesty, non-conformity, and similar qualities that aren't on the menu any longer.

[Shiningtempest]

@Freedom_Enjoyer For me, green flags are she doesn't work long hours, isn't vegetarian or vegan, doesn't have physical & mental health problems, isn't divorced, no abusive ex, doesn't have tattoos, & dislikes traveling.

[Freedom_Enjoyer]

@Shiningtempest that's highly correlates with my list.

[TheSpaceGnome]

She plays video games, and is creative/makes art.
She likes science, sci-fi, fantasy, anime/cartoons, and wildlife.
She doesn't smoke, use alcohol, pot, or other drugs.
She's an atheist, has a positive outlook on life, and very silly, bubbly, kind hearted, hyper, and clingy.
She's a virgin and has no permanent infections, despite having a high sex drive.

[exitseven]

It is hard to describe. One time I had no interest in a girl but the more I hung out with her the more I decided I liked her. And other times I just met somebody and wad instantly attracted to them. ⁶

[Anonymous]

I once was attracted to a solid 9 looks wise…but let me tell you bad mistake. As I got to know her all of that went out the window for me she was totally different person that turned me off. I then lost interest in her completely

[Darkest-Knight]

She ain't pretty she just looks that way. LOL!

[tzdc21]

When I find her looks and personality attractive AND if she is showing a high interest in me as well.

[Jamie05rhs]

If she has the qualities that I'm looking for in a life partner.

[drwine]

Actually if she really takes care of me, i mean if im one of the few person she really feels special with, than i think i can see her romantically or even more than that with time😊

[VforVindication]

When there is chemistry and a mutual physical attraction on top of that. But it has to be both. If i am really not attracted physically to her, it doesn't matter how nice she is.

[kakaling]

1) Her physical appearance.

2) Her eyes light up when she sees me.

[Shiningtempest]

What makes me see a woman romantically are shared hobbies, enjoying same music genres, punctual, isn't divorced, no sex partners, atheist, & no ex-lovers.

[Anonymous]

I may start to get to intrigued by her if looks is the one thing SHE DOESN'T try to use on me. It means it's possible there may be some substance there, which may lessen the risk.

[Shy_Steve]

It's only when we find her Physically Attractive and when She shows us in some way that She likes us.

[DextroShade]

She is fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, childless, and not a hoe.

[LiamJHayden]

I am never sure till I test it. We might get along famously, but lack that spark.

[DerekC321]

She's confident, smart, attractive and we share a lot of interests.

[SL1CK_BL1CK]

Similar interests, but even then it’s hard as I like my own time

[mT2359]

Her ability to attract by not being overtly boisterous!

[Wonderingguyy]

If that spark/chemistry is there

[milo2u]

The girls personality, similarities, and wants.

[Danny_dan92]

Being attracted to her

[OddBeMe]

Pretty sure we always are.

[Nominal]

She wants you.

[Maurydixkman69]

blowjob and deep throat

[red324]

her eyes

[shades777]

her upper lip